I wish i Knew how to deal with nervousness....

im a romantic at heart

and Ive never made it past a first date without getting awkwardly yet horribly kinda thrown to the side

well guess what folks, I made it to the second date

and

I

HAVE

NO

IDEA

what the hell to do

lol, The romantic side of me grew her a pink rose, but i forget chivalry is dead, and i dont know how shes gonna handle that, so needless to say im nervous as heck

so i mean theres no real general reply for this lol, just a general vent, just a nervous dude

Ive never really had anything successful or good before, and this is my first good date so im like AHHH!

just do your thing. obviously its worked this far good luck

Give her the damn rose. Smile at her and tell her she's pretty. Be all goofy and stumbling over your words.

We like it when a man is effected this way by us.

Yay for you and nooooooooo....the rose is perfect...she will love it...just be easy on yourself, relax and have fun...Good luck

I'll take the chivalry!!!
You will live no matter how it goes and I'll bet you do just fine!!!

like i mean i know ill be fine and okay either way, its just after having been used so many times I get so scared...

I think a lot of us go through that, not wanting to be used again. It's hard no matter what. Sometimes I really screw things up as I'm so hyper from having been used and literally abused. It haunts no matter how diligently I try. Poor guys who are innocent get both machine guns sometimes.

After watching the one girl i truly loved have -ahem- a great time with another guy right in front of me and every other girl ive even tried to date just "pretend" to have feelings. It hurts. And as far as abuse goes...haha well, thats an amazing story in itself lol. Lets just say I had quite a diligent father =]

Dude.. Those guys that say Chivalry is dead... pay for sex...LOL.. Be who you are with her. If she doesn't appreciate you doing that, then move on. There isn't one person here that hasn't had their heart hurt, or broken into pieces at least once.