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Topic: GUYS.........
Therapygrl28 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 712	Mon 07/21/08 07:38 PM
A month is hardly enough time to really get to know someone. Maybe but Have you ever met someone you feel like you have known all your life?

Dangerous_Kitchen Joined Mon 06/02/08 Posts: 2897	Mon 07/21/08 07:38 PM
i just recently dealt with this. i just replied "olive juice". i can't say i blame her though...what's not to love

guyguy1225 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 1936	Mon 07/21/08 07:38 PM
my reaction would be flattered and , but ask if she would double check her self at the door

Sweetnshy47 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 1261	Mon 07/21/08 07:39 PM
Scarey!!

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Mon 07/21/08 07:39 PM
It's preferable to hearing her say, "You suck." Tis true...Tis very true.

fdp1177 Joined Tue 07/01/08 Posts: 190	Mon 07/21/08 07:39 PM
Very true. Of course there is love, which translated from man-speak means "Can I rock your world yet? Because I'm really horney..." There is love which translated from girl-speak may or may not mean anything but comes across as "I'm psychotically obsessive, and will do literally anything, no really anything at all please... I hate you!" And finally there is the sort of more normal love which pretty much means the same as "I like you enough to put up with you for the foreseeable future. Let's make a big judgment risk and move in together."

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Mon 07/21/08 07:41 PM
.........It's not that I am running away from you.....just running the other direction really quickly.............

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Mon 07/21/08 07:42 PM
Bottom line....eyes dont usually lie That is soooooo true!!

coquibella Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 268	Mon 07/21/08 07:48 PM
I delt with that recently (badly) and just outright laughed. I suppose that was my reaction from the shock. We spoke on the phone for like 2 days and he bust out with "I love you." Wouldn't you laugh... that was ridiculous. Needless to say I stopped speaking to him... I don't fare well with lies.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 07/21/08 07:49 PM
All I get is "I lust you". Where's the fairness here?

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 07/21/08 07:49 PM
Have you ever met or spent time in person? A month is short, but it can happen if you spend a lot of time together that you know you're in love with someone after a month. If it's only online or over the phone, though, then it's not a very accurate predictor...

coquibella Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 268	Mon 07/21/08 07:50 PM
Very true. Of course there is love, which translated from man-speak means "Can I rock your world yet? Because I'm really horney..." There is love which translated from girl-speak may or may not mean anything but comes across as "I'm psychotically obsessive, and will do literally anything, no really anything at all please... I hate you!" And finally there is the sort of more normal love which pretty much means the same as "I like you enough to put up with you for the foreseeable future. Let's make a big judgment risk and move in together." yeah that sounds about right LOL

Therapygrl28 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 712	Mon 07/21/08 07:55 PM
To clarify the situation...I actually text 'love ya' and 'good night' to a guy I met a month ago. We talk everyday. Hung out several times in person. I feel like I have known him longer then i have. I care for him alot and love him in a friendship situation. Is that scary for only a month long relationship?

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 07/21/08 07:55 PM
Ah I guess its better to have an "I love you" thrown in your face prematurely than having her say it when you're prematurely having sex and you're in mid stroke and she says it at that moment. That's awkward. How do you reply? "Um uh well uh I love your wetness?"

Therapygrl28 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 712	Mon 07/21/08 07:56 PM
Ah I guess its better to have an "I love you" thrown in your face prematurely than having her say it when you're prematurely having sex and you're in mid stroke and she says it at that moment. That's awkward. How do you reply? "Um uh well uh I love your wetness?" OUCH...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 07/21/08 07:57 PM
A month is hardly enough time to really get to know someone. Maybe but Have you ever met someone you feel like you have known all your life? I have yet to have that happen

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Mon 07/21/08 08:35 PM
To clarify the situation...I actually text 'love ya' and 'good night' to a guy I met a month ago. We talk everyday. Hung out several times in person. I feel like I have known him longer then i have. I care for him alot and love him in a friendship situation. Is that scary for only a month long relationship? Sometimes, you just know.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 07/21/08 08:39 PM
The more I know stuff, the more I don't wanna know stuff. Ya know?

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 07/21/08 08:39 PM
Depends on the sitatuion at hand if everything was copasetic or not

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 07/21/08 08:44 PM
Geesh people! Don't you know it takes 9,876 emails and at least 5,457 phone hours to be in love. I can love anyone at anytime though. I love you ALL!