Topic: what to do?
scorpion2's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:22 PM
Edited by scorpion2 on Sun 07/20/08 04:38 PM
i was dating this girl but she let every thing botrer her we end up being apart for some time and now am back on the dating seen trying to fine love seh keep calling me what should i do. keep searching or go back. but am afraid her attitude will be the same. may be i can fine some one who will love me for me.

auburngirl's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:24 PM
What do you mean she let everything bother her??

ledi180's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:25 PM
Never settle - unless you were truly happy with her (doesnt sound like you were) then tell her it's over and then stop taking her calls.

Good luck!

scorpion2's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:26 PM
every thing if my phone ring ,if i go to hang with friend etc.

auburngirl's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:27 PM
Were you dating only her? Or her and other ladies also? Maybe those things bothered her if you were only suppose to be with her....if there wasn't that agreement, then maybe she was hoping you WOULD only want to be with her.

guyguy1225's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:27 PM
sounds like she is jealous , now that you are looking..

Raven100's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:29 PM
One thing you need in a Relationship
is "TRUST"..if you don't have that
you don't have anything..glasses

scorpion2's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:30 PM
i was withher only dut there cone a timh a man need some some man time to hang out drink and talk

no photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:30 PM

sounds like she is jealous , now that you are looking..


Yeppers! That's what I thought. Honestly, I'd move on.

scorpion2's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:32 PM
well that is the point she dont trust me and if my phone ring she start talkin loud just to let some one know she is there and know matter who call me her reply is tell youe woman dem.you know

scorpion2's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:34 PM


sounds like she is jealous , now that you are looking..


Yeppers! That's what I thought. Honestly, I'd move on.



so i should keep looking that sound good

ledi180's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:37 PM
But you've got to make it clear to your ex that it's O V E R.




sounds like she is jealous , now that you are looking..


Yeppers! That's what I thought. Honestly, I'd move on.



so i should keep looking that sound good

BettyB's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:37 PM
it does not sound like you relly want to be with her. If you did get back with her then it would not be fair to you or herflowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:40 PM
Ok I posted a reply to this that hasn't shown up but I'll type it again..

If you were dating only her and gave her cause to be jealous, that is one thing. If you were not dating only her, and she acted this way, she clearly has some issues to work on. Either way, what you do will depend on how you feel about this woman.

scorpion2's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:41 PM

it does not sound like you relly want to be with her. If you did get back with her then it would not be fair to you or herflowerforyou


it is not about being with her it is her attitude i cant live with on a whole she is a wonderful person but she need to let her pass be her pass and drop those attitude.

BettyB's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:43 PM


it does not sound like you relly want to be with her. If you did get back with her then it would not be fair to you or herflowerforyou


it is not about being with her it is her attitude i cant live with on a whole she is a wonderful person but she need to let her pass be her pass and drop those attitude.

But isn,t her attitude part of her? Do you think she will or can change?

scorpion2's photo
Sun 07/20/08 04:46 PM
Edited by scorpion2 on Sun 07/20/08 04:47 PM
really don't think she can change or think she will