Topic: How do you let someone know
carolanne58's photo
Fri 07/18/08 09:58 PM
How kinky bobby! sounds like mud wrestling to me lol

isaac_dede's photo
Fri 07/18/08 09:58 PM
Just tell them i'm not intrested or something to the effect...But in a polite way.

curios789's photo
Fri 07/18/08 09:59 PM







An actual conversation that I JUST had. WAY too funny!

HIM: how r u baby?
ME: I am good thank you. And yourself?
HIM: kinda bored maybe we can roleplay
ME: You are 19! Sorry but I am not thinking so.
HIM: so? i tend to **** hard
ME: Congratulations. Do it with somebody your own age!
HIM: ur probably a slut
ME: Can't be much of a slut if I will not roll play with you! LMFAO!
HIM: yea ur too ugly for me
ME: See this is why I do not go after 19 year old BABIES. AGAIN you are the one that messaged me! Could not be that ugly if you wanted to roll play with me!
Grow up!
HIM: na i am already grown up now please leave me alone
ME: You messaged me and you are the one that wants me to leave me alone? Trust me you got it!
Kids I tell yea.


People like this give us a bad name. It upsets me sooo much, you have no idea.
Sorry no offense just do not go after people that are still in there teens.

Excuse me...that is extremely ageist. Just because someone isn't 20+, that doesn't mean that they act like that. That's really not fair for you to make that assumption, and it's wrong for you to project that to the other people on this site. There are some of us who don't act like that fool, and his actions should not be considered the actions of the whole.

she is allowed to her personal choice is she not ?


I may have misunderstood, but it sounded to me like an imperative statement. And, anyway, I'm getting the general ageist vibe from this entire thread.



all she was saying is that she doesnt want to date someone in that age range...there is nothing wrong with that.that is her choice.we are all allowed our opinions are we not ? but do not take offense to something so quickly..try to see it thru someone else's eyes before making such a statement yourself.




Okay, I'm willing to admit that I may have misread the statement, but the fact still remains that all teenagers are not like that. And maybe not from WTAS, but from the thread in general, that is the idea that is getting pushed.

kayliz88's photo
Fri 07/18/08 09:59 PM

Just tell them i'm not intrested or something to the effect...But in a polite way.


Issac! Where ya been?

missy51970's photo
Fri 07/18/08 09:59 PM
Im not sure in 19 short years anyone that age can have as much life experience as someone my age... its not a bad thing its simply stating the obvious.. ive been here alot longer and have dealt with more for more years.. it isnt an insult

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Fri 07/18/08 10:00 PM




again i agree, teenagers maybe as mature as they want to be however, life is an experince that you only have 19 years of... maturity plays little role in that aspect..

Experience isn't always measured in years.


then please mesaure it for me.


You're analyzing maturity as a quantitative value. It's definitely not that. People grow up at different rates, and I don't think it's fair for someone to insinuate that all teenagers are little babies who don't know anything.


yes true to a certain degree, some adults never grow up but then again we arnt talking about maturity, we are talking about exeriences withing maturity. So many factors play role into wide-range dating.

seahawks's photo
Fri 07/18/08 10:00 PM
oops misread post again.!!!!laugh laugh drinker

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Fri 07/18/08 10:01 PM

Im not sure in 19 short years anyone that age can have as much life experience as someone my age... its not a bad thing its simply stating the obvious.. ive been here alot longer and have dealt with more for more years.. it isnt an insult

im agreeing

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 07/18/08 10:01 PM



again i agree, teenagers maybe as mature as they want to be however, life is an experince that you only have 19 years of... maturity plays little role in that aspect..

Experience isn't always measured in years.


then please mesaure it for me.


I can assure you at my age of 23 I've seen more, been through more then you probably will in your lifetime. So experience is not measured in years.

kayliz88's photo
Fri 07/18/08 10:03 PM

Im not sure in 19 short years anyone that age can have as much life experience as someone my age... its not a bad thing its simply stating the obvious.. ive been here alot longer and have dealt with more for more years.. it isnt an insult



Well I have been through more in 19 years than anyone should have to go through in a lifetime and I think it shows in the way I act. Not saying I am the most mature person(I do tend to have my silly moments) but for the most part I do not act my age.

curios789's photo
Fri 07/18/08 10:04 PM





again i agree, teenagers maybe as mature as they want to be however, life is an experince that you only have 19 years of... maturity plays little role in that aspect..

Experience isn't always measured in years.


then please mesaure it for me.


You're analyzing maturity as a quantitative value. It's definitely not that. People grow up at different rates, and I don't think it's fair for someone to insinuate that all teenagers are little babies who don't know anything.


yes true to a certain degree, some adults never grow up but then again we arnt talking about maturity, we are talking about exeriences withing maturity. So many factors play role into wide-range dating.


I'm not saying that there aren't many factors that play into wide-range dating, I'm just saying that all "teenagers" shouldn't be lumped into one group of immature, lazy, unintelligent, babies.

izzie's photo
Fri 07/18/08 10:10 PM
Edited by izzie on Fri 07/18/08 10:14 PM





again i agree, teenagers maybe as mature as they want to be however, life is an experince that you only have 19 years of... maturity plays little role in that aspect..

Experience isn't always measured in years.


then please mesaure it for me.


You're analyzing maturity as a quantitative value. It's definitely not that. People grow up at different rates, and I don't think it's fair for someone to insinuate that all teenagers are little babies who don't know anything.


yes true to a certain degree, some adults never grow up but then again we arnt talking about maturity, we are talking about exeriences withing maturity. So many factors play role into wide-range dating.
well... i can say this much.. im only 27, but due to my life experienes i have been forced to mature at a much faster rate.. i can gurantee that i was more mature at theage of 19 than many of the people in this thread are now....
sorry to say, but im agreeing with the "ageist vibe" that hes gettin from this one..

izzie's photo
Fri 07/18/08 10:23 PM

Im not sure in 19 short years anyone that age can have as much life experience as someone my age... its not a bad thing its simply stating the obvious.. ive been here alot longer and have dealt with more for more years.. it isnt an insult
missy.. i went through a good portion of what " we" went through by the age of 19....

Calilmarie's photo
Sat 07/19/08 12:23 AM
Thank you, but I am not interested
Good luck to you

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 07/19/08 12:46 AM

you aren't interested in them when they write you? C'mon I know it happens.


I just ask them if English is their primary language. If that doesn't work, I ask them if they graduated 6th grade. I mean, it's not like I'm not clear on the subject in my profile. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: smitten smitten smitten smitten smitten

whispertoascream's photo
Sat 07/19/08 01:09 AM





An actual conversation that I JUST had. WAY too funny!

HIM: how r u baby?
ME: I am good thank you. And yourself?
HIM: kinda bored maybe we can roleplay
ME: You are 19! Sorry but I am not thinking so.
HIM: so? i tend to **** hard
ME: Congratulations. Do it with somebody your own age!
HIM: ur probably a slut
ME: Can't be much of a slut if I will not roll play with you! LMFAO!
HIM: yea ur too ugly for me
ME: See this is why I do not go after 19 year old BABIES. AGAIN you are the one that messaged me! Could not be that ugly if you wanted to roll play with me!
Grow up!
HIM: na i am already grown up now please leave me alone
ME: You messaged me and you are the one that wants me to leave me alone? Trust me you got it!
Kids I tell yea.


People like this give us a bad name. It upsets me sooo much, you have no idea.
Sorry no offense just do not go after people that are still in there teens.

Excuse me...that is extremely ageist. Just because someone isn't 20+, that doesn't mean that they act like that. That's really not fair for you to make that assumption, and it's wrong for you to project that to the other people on this site. There are some of us who don't act like that fool, and his actions should not be considered the actions of the whole.


In her defense she never said anything directly negative about that age range, just that she wouldn't date anyone in their teens (13-19).


Thank you! I am allowed to like who I like. Who are you to say different? EVERYBODY has there own preference. I am sorry if you do not like the fact that I do not date teenagers. It is almost like the guy in the conversation. He got all pissy because I would not roll play with him. You are getting all pissy because I do not date teens. Not much of a difference here!

izzie's photo
Sat 07/19/08 01:51 AM
whisper... i beleve that his defensiveness came from the whole attitude that the thread had taken on..
example.. telling the thread that a 19 yr old needed a bottle and a blakie and a nightlight to go to sleep as they were to young to have any "real life" experience.....


not exeactly directed at you in particular, but at the ageist discriminatory note that the whole thread had taken on.....

i could be wrong, but thats how itseemed to me... and i came in in the end of the thread...

no photo
Sat 07/19/08 02:19 AM
Uhhhhhhhhh I ignore them........as for the 19 years olds that get upset!!!...........GET OVER IT!!!! why would I want a guy that is almost the same age as my son??? Thats gross!!!! ewwwwwwwwwww disgusting!!!! leaving a bad taste in my mouth just thinking about it................scratching out my eyeballs!!!!noway noway noway

curios789's photo
Sat 07/19/08 03:31 AM
Gypsy...I'm not upset because she won't date teenagers...I'm upset because of the way this thread is VIEWING teenagers...

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 07/19/08 04:55 AM

Gypsy...I'm not upset because she won't date teenagers...I'm upset because of the way this thread is VIEWING teenagers...


Oh. Were you the one? rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Seriously, I was one once, a couple decades back. It's safe to assume teenagers to be young and dumb. Deal with it. rofl rofl rofl rofl