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Mon 07/21/08 05:13 PM



There were no lies involved...just kept the sordid details to myself although there were many questions as to what happened. I simply spared that stuff as I thought it was unnecessary.

I hope it all works out for you in the long run. I know how hard it is when you really want to meet someone and things just dont work out. Maybe you can remain friends with him and when things are better, then you can meet him.flowerforyou


Thank you for the note of confidence, but it already appears to be superfiacial and all talk. Sei la vie...i was looking when I began this venture and not so sure about the solidety of website communications anyhow. Extremely superficial and apparently surreal to many.
Oh well, back to the real world and meeting someone face to face without the facade of the internet...LOL


Thank you SO much for being the one out of the norm

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Mon 07/21/08 05:16 PM
Honesty is the best policy

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Mon 07/21/08 05:22 PM

Honesty is the best policy


Already done and he vacated..the true colors came through and this is a blessing in diguise I guess..hehe

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Mon 07/21/08 09:47 PM
Are you sure that he vacated? Maybe he feels dumped since you didn't tell him what was going on.flowerforyou

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Mon 07/21/08 09:49 PM



There were no lies involved...just kept the sordid details to myself although there were many questions as to what happened. I simply spared that stuff as I thought it was unnecessary.

I hope it all works out for you in the long run. I know how hard it is when you really want to meet someone and things just dont work out. Maybe you can remain friends with him and when things are better, then you can meet him.flowerforyou


Thank you for the note of confidence, but it already appears to be superfiacial and all talk. Sei la vie...i was looking when I began this venture and not so sure about the solidety of website communications anyhow. Extremely superficial and apparently surreal to many.
Oh well, back to the real world and meeting someone face to face without the facade of the internet...LOL


Really? I've met some very nice men. I dated one for four months.

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Tue 07/22/08 04:55 PM

Are you sure that he vacated? Maybe he feels dumped since you didn't tell him what was going on.flowerforyou


Not vacated, simply chooses to ignore what has been discussed prior. (perhaps denial?) Unknown but was thrown a textbook response and dealing with that now. I have already clarified that I am a private person, but have been met with insistent badgering and left no room to make decisions that are relevant and pertinant to me, personally. Oh, crap...I am sharing too much here.

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Wed 07/23/08 10:46 PM


Are you sure that he vacated? Maybe he feels dumped since you didn't tell him what was going on.flowerforyou


Not vacated, simply chooses to ignore what has been discussed prior. (perhaps denial?) Unknown but was thrown a textbook response and dealing with that now. I have already clarified that I am a private person, but have been met with insistent badgering and left no room to make decisions that are relevant and pertinant to me, personally. Oh, crap...I am sharing too much here.


Lil Bit,

I do hope that you don't take this the wrong way. But..when I am starting a relationship, I find that it is already doomed for failure if I have a wall up.flowerforyou

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Wed 07/23/08 10:49 PM
Edited by kk35695 on Wed 07/23/08 10:50 PM
Be honest.... trust me. this has recently happened to me.....
.....too hard to wiggle out of around truth...

frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated


.........btw.... hi ya' winx...:smile:

Winx's photo
Wed 07/23/08 10:56 PM

Be honest.... trust me. this has recently happened to me.....
.....too hard to wiggle out of around truth...

frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated


.........btw.... hi ya' winx...:smile:


Hi KK.flowerforyou

Sorry to see your head hitting the wall.flowerforyou

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Wed 07/23/08 11:01 PM
:wink:

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Thu 07/24/08 07:12 PM



There were no lies involved...just kept the sordid details to myself although there were many questions as to what happened. I simply spared that stuff as I thought it was unnecessary.

I hope it all works out for you in the long run. I know how hard it is when you really want to meet someone and things just dont work out. Maybe you can remain friends with him and when things are better, then you can meet him.flowerforyou


Thank you for the note of confidence, but it already appears to be superfiacial and all talk. Sei la vie...i was looking when I began this venture and not so sure about the solidety of website communications anyhow. Extremely superficial and apparently surreal to many.
Oh well, back to the real world and meeting someone face to face without the facade of the internet...LOL


I've been with my bf for 5 months and we met right here, and through mutual match, no less!

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Thu 07/24/08 07:14 PM
be honest,, happend to me,, was suppose to meet someone, he cancelled,for personal reasons, told me about it,, we still talk and maybe someday we will meet

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Thu 07/24/08 08:57 PM
getting it off your chest always helps, life is too short to not explain whats on your mind, regardless of the outcome

Winx's photo
Thu 07/24/08 09:00 PM

getting it off your chest always helps, life is too short to not explain whats on your mind, regardless of the outcome


You do have good advise on here.flowerforyou

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