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Topic: How can you consider somone being...
auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/17/08 05:20 PM

my parents knew each other 6 weeks, they wed, had 6 kids, and just celebrated 51 years.....I knew my ex 9yrs and we were married 5 of that.....
what may be right for you isnt always true for the next couple........why judge??
IMHO


When a friend of mine's parents met...the man went home, and told HIS mother, "I just met the woman I am going to marry". A few months later, he did. And they were married 52 years before they both passed away.

My mother had the same response to my dad and they were married 51 when they passed away. Ya just never never know.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 07/17/08 05:22 PM

my parents knew each other 6 weeks, they wed, had 6 kids, and just celebrated 51 years.....I knew my ex 9yrs and we were married 5 of that.....
what may be right for you isnt always true for the next couple........why judge??
IMHO


Did theY meet off the net? When your parents met. People had family values, in todays world, most of that has been thrown out the window. lets see, you talk to somone on here,you like each other because you feel you both have alot in common and you diseide to meet. maybe you guys flirted alot along the way before you met. it's a LDR, with most, knowing you been alone for a long time. Whats the one thing that that men think about most and most likely destroys the relationship?

Syggie's photo
Thu 07/17/08 05:22 PM

I think a lot of times, doing this online thing is doing things extremely backwards. What I mean is, you talk and you talk and you talk and get to know someone, then you decide if you want to meet, and by that time you might have developed some feelings for the other person. I know many of you, myself included HAVE done that. Often, unlike in the 3D world, the meeting is the last piece whereas in the 3d world, you see someone or are introduced, and then decide whether to go out with them. I actually prefer it this way, because distance forces you to talk; you aren't spending 2.5 hours some night sitting quietly in a movie. You can certainly cover a lot of ground when there is nothing to do but talk. Not to say that when some meet, it doesn't fly. But very often it actually does.


I agree. Getting to know someone online gives you the option to get to know them from inside out, provided the people involve are honest and actually want to get themselves known. Meeting someone in person have to do more with physical attraction more than anything, imo.

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/17/08 05:25 PM


I think a lot of times, doing this online thing is doing things extremely backwards. What I mean is, you talk and you talk and you talk and get to know someone, then you decide if you want to meet, and by that time you might have developed some feelings for the other person. I know many of you, myself included HAVE done that. Often, unlike in the 3D world, the meeting is the last piece whereas in the 3d world, you see someone or are introduced, and then decide whether to go out with them. I actually prefer it this way, because distance forces you to talk; you aren't spending 2.5 hours some night sitting quietly in a movie. You can certainly cover a lot of ground when there is nothing to do but talk. Not to say that when some meet, it doesn't fly. But very often it actually does.


I agree. Getting to know someone online gives you the option to get to know them from inside out, provided the people involve are honest and actually want to get themselves known. Meeting someone in person have to do more with physical attraction more than anything, imo.



YOU are exactly right! And ALL of it pre-supposes that the two people involved are being honest about who they are, their values, wants, etc etc.

Amathyst2's photo
Thu 07/17/08 06:27 PM



I think a lot of times, doing this online thing is doing things extremely backwards. What I mean is, you talk and you talk and you talk and get to know someone, then you decide if you want to meet, and by that time you might have developed some feelings for the other person. I know many of you, myself included HAVE done that. Often, unlike in the 3D world, the meeting is the last piece whereas in the 3d world, you see someone or are introduced, and then decide whether to go out with them. I actually prefer it this way, because distance forces you to talk; you aren't spending 2.5 hours some night sitting quietly in a movie. You can certainly cover a lot of ground when there is nothing to do but talk. Not to say that when some meet, it doesn't fly. But very often it actually does.


I agree. Getting to know someone online gives you the option to get to know them from inside out, provided the people involve are honest and actually want to get themselves known. Meeting someone in person have to do more with physical attraction more than anything, imo.



YOU are exactly right! And ALL of it pre-supposes that the two people involved are being honest about who they are, their values, wants, etc etc.


I agree that it does give you a chance to get to know someone on a more spiritual, mental, and emotional level. Yes, getting to know someone in person is different. There are so many people out there that find it difficult to share themselves intimately face to face. So in order to brake the ice, the phone or internet gives them the opportunity to do so. In a face to face meeting there are so many complications that could arise. Like having sex before they know the person on a personal level. On the net you may get to know someone for a month or more before you meet. By then, if you have asked the right questions, you should have somewhat more of an understanding of the person. It keeps sex from complicating things. JMO :smile:

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/17/08 06:28 PM




I think a lot of times, doing this online thing is doing things extremely backwards. What I mean is, you talk and you talk and you talk and get to know someone, then you decide if you want to meet, and by that time you might have developed some feelings for the other person. I know many of you, myself included HAVE done that. Often, unlike in the 3D world, the meeting is the last piece whereas in the 3d world, you see someone or are introduced, and then decide whether to go out with them. I actually prefer it this way, because distance forces you to talk; you aren't spending 2.5 hours some night sitting quietly in a movie. You can certainly cover a lot of ground when there is nothing to do but talk. Not to say that when some meet, it doesn't fly. But very often it actually does.


I agree. Getting to know someone online gives you the option to get to know them from inside out, provided the people involve are honest and actually want to get themselves known. Meeting someone in person have to do more with physical attraction more than anything, imo.



YOU are exactly right! And ALL of it pre-supposes that the two people involved are being honest about who they are, their values, wants, etc etc.


I agree that it does give you a chance to get to know someone on a more spiritual, mental, and emotional level. Yes, getting to know someone in person is different. There are so many people out there that find it difficult to share themselves intimately face to face. So in order to brake the ice, the phone or internet gives them the opportunity to do so. In a face to face meeting there are so many complications that could arise. Like having sex before they know the person on a personal level. On the net you may get to know someone for a month or more before you meet. By then, if you have asked the right questions, you should have somewhat more of an understanding of the person. It keeps sex from complicating things. JMO :smile:


VERY well said!

TheShadow's photo
Thu 07/17/08 06:32 PM




I think a lot of times, doing this online thing is doing things extremely backwards. What I mean is, you talk and you talk and you talk and get to know someone, then you decide if you want to meet, and by that time you might have developed some feelings for the other person. I know many of you, myself included HAVE done that. Often, unlike in the 3D world, the meeting is the last piece whereas in the 3d world, you see someone or are introduced, and then decide whether to go out with them. I actually prefer it this way, because distance forces you to talk; you aren't spending 2.5 hours some night sitting quietly in a movie. You can certainly cover a lot of ground when there is nothing to do but talk. Not to say that when some meet, it doesn't fly. But very often it actually does.


I agree. Getting to know someone online gives you the option to get to know them from inside out, provided the people involve are honest and actually want to get themselves known. Meeting someone in person have to do more with physical attraction more than anything, imo.



YOU are exactly right! And ALL of it pre-supposes that the two people involved are being honest about who they are, their values, wants, etc etc.


I agree that it does give you a chance to get to know someone on a more spiritual, mental, and emotional level. Yes, getting to know someone in person is different. There are so many people out there that find it difficult to share themselves intimately face to face. So in order to brake the ice, the phone or internet gives them the opportunity to do so. In a face to face meeting there are so many complications that could arise. Like having sex before they know the person on a personal level. On the net you may get to know someone for a month or more before you meet. By then, if you have asked the right questions, you should have somewhat more of an understanding of the person. It keeps sex from complicating things. JMO :smile:


I could of said thatlaugh :tongue:

Seriously though. Meeting people on here has been a wonderful experience. Any relationship i have out side of meeting somone on here always had moved way to fast, you get caught up in the exciment of it all, that most of the time you lose yourself.

Amathyst2's photo
Thu 07/17/08 07:05 PM





I think a lot of times, doing this online thing is doing things extremely backwards. What I mean is, you talk and you talk and you talk and get to know someone, then you decide if you want to meet, and by that time you might have developed some feelings for the other person. I know many of you, myself included HAVE done that. Often, unlike in the 3D world, the meeting is the last piece whereas in the 3d world, you see someone or are introduced, and then decide whether to go out with them. I actually prefer it this way, because distance forces you to talk; you aren't spending 2.5 hours some night sitting quietly in a movie. You can certainly cover a lot of ground when there is nothing to do but talk. Not to say that when some meet, it doesn't fly. But very often it actually does.


I agree. Getting to know someone online gives you the option to get to know them from inside out, provided the people involve are honest and actually want to get themselves known. Meeting someone in person have to do more with physical attraction more than anything, imo.



YOU are exactly right! And ALL of it pre-supposes that the two people involved are being honest about who they are, their values, wants, etc etc.


I agree that it does give you a chance to get to know someone on a more spiritual, mental, and emotional level. Yes, getting to know someone in person is different. There are so many people out there that find it difficult to share themselves intimately face to face. So in order to brake the ice, the phone or internet gives them the opportunity to do so. In a face to face meeting there are so many complications that could arise. Like having sex before they know the person on a personal level. On the net you may get to know someone for a month or more before you meet. By then, if you have asked the right questions, you should have somewhat more of an understanding of the person. It keeps sex from complicating things. JMO :smile:


I could of said thatlaugh :tongue:

Seriously though. Meeting people on here has been a wonderful experience. Any relationship i have out side of meeting somone on here always had moved way to fast, you get caught up in the exciment of it all, that most of the time you lose yourself.


Exactly! That's why I said it for you! :tongue: laugh

no photo
Thu 07/17/08 07:15 PM

Your's when you never met? and what give you the right to even think that?

Been on here for some time now and i've seen a few threads. like this> I met this Man/Woman and everything is as i expected it to be. I fell in love with this Man/Women and were going to move in with each other and maybe start a family. OH! by the way, we only known each other for about two weeks and we never met. What do you think?laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh





noway noway what what slaphead slaphead huh huh

Amathyst2's photo
Thu 07/17/08 07:24 PM


Your's when you never met? and what give you the right to even think that?

Been on here for some time now and i've seen a few threads. like this> I met this Man/Woman and everything is as i expected it to be. I fell in love with this Man/Women and were going to move in with each other and maybe start a family. OH! by the way, we only known each other for about two weeks and we never met. What do you think?laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh





noway noway what what slaphead slaphead huh huh


Are you confused with an overwhelming, multiple, amount of emotions on this subject girl? laugh

No1sLove's photo
Thu 07/17/08 07:58 PM

Your's when you never met? and what give you the right to even think that?

Been on here for some time now and i've seen a few threads. like this> I met this Man/Woman and everything is as i expected it to be. I fell in love with this Man/Women and were going to move in with each other and maybe start a family. OH! by the way, we only known each other for about two weeks and we never met. What do you think?laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



It can't happen like THAT! It takes at least 2 months of online friendship to fall in love completely...and at least one more month to effectively plan your life together. happy flowerforyou

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