Topic: Would you consider it "cheating"? | |
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Say you meet someone online and you spend a few weeks chatting and talking to this person and you fall for her/him, and he/she tells you he/she is in love with you too... but then find out he/she has been having sexual partners while this is happening. Would you consider that as cheating? Would you even consider it as having a "relationship" with someone you've never met in person?
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I'd say thats having your cake and eating it toooooooooooooooo
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I'd say thats having your cake and eating it toooooooooooooooo I'd say thats having your date and eating it toooo |
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She can have her cake and eat it ... by herself
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Edited by
Unknow
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Thu 07/17/08 04:12 PM
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It depends on several factors, but I think the most important one is if the word love was mentioned. Since you said it was then you must RUN AWAY. This woman will rip your heart out and eat it for breakfast.
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i would say,get in line then walk away,,,,,,there to many good women out there to put up with that crap
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Sounds like she doesn't deserve you! Her loss!
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Just what DTH said...
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IM confused, what does sex have to do with love
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Just what DTH said... |
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Yup, cheating!!
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If it's only online chats, then it would be too soon to be talking about love anyway, but if they are having sex with anyone, hopefully it would only be with one person, and that should, in my opinion, be there "partner" in a relationship, so therefore shouldn't be trying to engage online relationships.
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Yeah, I'd agree. If he's in love with YOU, nothing else would do!
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I would say yes it is.
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HELL YES!!!
Nasty fricken female! |
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I really hate this topic.. lol
The way "I" see it... #1 she/he is cheating on the person they are sleeping with.. by even chatting to you online even saying the "I love you" words. And getting that deeply involved in the communication That's taking it WAY beyond friendship. #2 if he/she is not in a committed relationship and THEN using the words "I Love You" to you.. then in a sense, yes, they're cheating.. those words are for a SERIOUS COMMITTED relationship.. *steps off soapbox" I'm done..... |
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yes its cheating, with love comes a certain level of committment and sex has alot to do with it.
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Got to remember my friend online anybody can be who they want and say whatever they want
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I really hate this topic.. lol The way "I" see it... #1 she/he is cheating on the person they are sleeping with.. by even chatting to you online even saying the "I love you" words. And getting that deeply involved in the communication That's taking it WAY beyond friendship. #2 if he/she is not in a committed relationship and THEN using the words "I Love You" to you.. then in a sense, yes, they're cheating.. those words are for a SERIOUS COMMITTED relationship.. *steps off soapbox" I'm done..... Yeah ... why say i love you if you don't mean it? |
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I was wondering the same thing...
I wouldnt know what to think. I am pretty sure my feelings would be hurt. |
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