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Fear, I don't think anyone, man or woman LACKS the emotion. It might just be a matter of tapping into it and let yourself feel it?? Trust me, I lack emotions...for the most part anyway, I don't get angry, sad, and happy comes very rarely...I'm just always at the same content state of mind. I don't even stress, I mean really? How many people do you know that don't get stressed out, angry, and/or sad? Ok..not many. But ya know what? that isn't necessarily a bad thing. I'd give anything to be on a more even keel! I feel things deeply and some might say too deeply. My Mother called me one "big walking heart". It can at time have its advantages to keep them in check. |
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Edited by
FearandLoathing
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Tue 07/15/08 08:40 PM
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i have ZERO to no time for dating Uh-huh... ya well at least u can work on becoming emotianlly available! I'm emotionally voided...does that count as some sort of emotional availability? |
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TRY stopping the weed.......you may find that you actually feel something besides the buzz!!!    Actually the weed helps me feel some basic emotions, sober I just stand around wondering what I should do...stoned I just do. 
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hmm is there such a thing as clinical boredom? It's called ataraxia, but it isn't medically accepted...I've brought it up in the past. |
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Do you ever have some sort of breakdown seeminly with no reason? Nope, always content. |
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My emotions told me to leave them alone...
and thats when I found the voices trying to tell me to do things... then as time passed... there were more joining.. |
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And someone told you you have this? A doc a woman, a self diagnosis???
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i have ZERO to no time for dating Uh-huh... ya well at least u can work on becoming emotianlly available! I'm emotionally voided...does that count as some sort of emotional availability? well..why are you voided? whats your block on your emotions? do u get mad? sad? happy? anything??? |
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And someone told you you have this? A doc a woman, a self diagnosis??? Self diagnosis, given I don't feel emotions...I think it is correct. |
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So let's say your mom, or sister, or one day a daughter unless you have one, gets hurt.....badly.....you don't think you would feel emotion?
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i have ZERO to no time for dating Uh-huh... ya well at least u can work on becoming emotianlly available! I'm emotionally voided...does that count as some sort of emotional availability? well..why are you voided? whats your block on your emotions? do u get mad? sad? happy? anything??? Don't have a block, just incapable of feeling most of them...like I said I get happy and joyous, but rarely. |
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So let's say your mom, or sister, or one day a daughter unless you have one, gets hurt.....badly.....you don't think you would feel emotion? I would wonder how they were doing, but I would keep the same calm I always have. |
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So you're telling me, that if you are in love with a woman, I mean ga ga in love with her....and some a@@ hole raped her and beat her up...you'd not feel that. I don't believe that Fear. Or if someone hurt your mom or a sister...I think you'd surprise yourself in certain situations at the range of your emotions. Not trying to be depressing...could have and probably should have used a positive example.
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So you're telling me, that if you are in love with a woman, I mean ga ga in love with her....and some a@@ hole raped her and beat her up...you'd not feel that. I don't believe that Fear. Or if someone hurt your mom or a sister...I think you'd surprise yourself in certain situations at the range of your emotions. Not trying to be depressing...could have and probably should have used a positive example. Wouldn't be anger though, it would be a carefully thought out plan. Even in times when I should rightfully be angry I remain calm, doesn't mean I don't retaliate. |
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Like they say, there is someone for everyone, so you'll find that special girl sooner or later.
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Ok...so if you are so convinced that you have this condition, have you talked to a medical prof about it?
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So if Ed McMahon showed up at your door, you'd just say...Meh, just put the check on the table and go please.
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Fear?
your not alone on this Feeling nothing is just as it is Explination isnt needed its a strange thing some see it as barbaric I use it wen I can |
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Ok...so if you are so convinced that you have this condition, have you talked to a medical prof about it? Nope...what are they going to do for me? Is there a pill that miracously brings back emotions? Would be a waste of money, to be honest. |
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So if Ed McMahon showed up at your door, you'd just say...Meh, just put the check on the table and go please. More then likely. |
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