b/c it is a trust issue...and when we are getting to know each other it just kinda sends the vibe that u are controlling and will be throughout the relationship..and I am not into controlling men..if I wanna go out I go out,and I don't want to have the guy sending a Private Investigator out to spy...and if we are just getting to know each other and u are already doing this I can only imagine..lol
Funny thing is,my neighbor did that..she like checked everyones background in the neighborhood..(she must have been bored) but she was the most Psycho of all..lol..
It just sends a bad message..IMO

What is this thing with women and Trust Issues ? I've hear this before and it does'nt make sense ?