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Topic: The Same Destructive Patterns
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 07/14/08 10:07 PM
Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?

lgo Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 1824	Mon 07/14/08 10:08 PM
I hope not.

student4yrs Joined Sun 07/22/07 Posts: 34	Mon 07/14/08 10:10 PM
No with each new relationship you learn new destructive patterns from each other, lol!

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Mon 07/14/08 10:12 PM Edited by Puffins1958 on Mon 07/14/08 10:14 PM
I would hope that with each new relationship, that you've learned something along the way, mistakes I've made that could be learned from.....

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Mon 07/14/08 10:15 PM
I am the consistant factor in all my dysfucntional relationships. If you keep picking the same woman, but with a different face, and getting the same results, you are the problem, not them.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 07/14/08 10:15 PM
No with each new relationship you learn new destructive patterns from each other, lol!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 07/14/08 10:18 PM


Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 07/14/08 10:18 PM
haha I like to think up new excuses to leave.......like........you eat too many peanuts while I sleep!!!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 07/14/08 10:48 PM
Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship? I can change Mirror! Give me a chance!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 07/14/08 10:55 PM
Never had any destructive behavior...just never picked the right guy...I believe I have changed that pattern already!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 07/14/08 11:05 PM
Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship? I can change Mirror! Give me a chance!

HeSearches Joined Sat 02/23/08 Posts: 312	Tue 07/15/08 12:14 AM
Every relationship stands on its own. You have two new personalities who clash in different ways. If you wanted a repeat of the last relationship you'd try to find someone almost exactly like the last one. That's pretty hard to do. Hopefully you're looking for the things that worked in the last relationship...not the things that didn't work.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Tue 07/15/08 04:51 AM
Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship? Only when I refuse to learn from the last one.

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