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i give my women all the space and trust they need, and i expect the same in return. 
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Sounds like to me you have a man that says one thing but means another.....
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I hardly ever call my guy .. but he knows he's the numero uno. He calls me all the time and I love it.
And I'm the one that needs my space. I'm more than independent. I'm edgy. I like dating the same. So many women today don't depend on a man but they enjoy them.  Find a guy that's secure .. and you won't be dealing with these issues.
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I believe you meant " Some Men" obviously that is what i meant...no one man is like another I was responding to the post |
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I think there is a huge difference between a woman being clingy and needy, and having daily communication with man in her life.
Some of us like to talk with the woman in our life at least once a day or correspond by email. It says to us that "hey, I was thinking about you." It says you care about us. When you never call or write or initiate anything, it says you could care less. It's fine with me if a woman is busy with her career or whatever, but I want to know that she cares enough about me to connect with me. If she can't make a priority in her life then I'm going to be out of her life so quickly she won't know happened. |
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I believe you meant " Some Men" obviously that is what i meant...no one man is like another I was responding to the post
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Okay men, needing some input on your view points! I am a very independant women, I have a great job, a house, car, I take care of my two older teens. I dont complain, I dont like drama or BS, I guess you can say I have a pretty stong personality but a good balance. I dont need to call a man everyday, I dont need to see him all the time and I dont mind it when he goes out with his friends, but I do make sure he knows he is important and I never forget the small things. Here is my question... Men say they want a independant, non clingy women but when they find that, then they have a hard time when we dont call all the time or beg for their time, why is this? Independent and trust can go hand in hand but I think a guy has to "Know" that she's there for him first before he moves onto accepting that she cares for him even when she's not calling all the time. So I believe that Once the Trust is established then acceptance will be welcome. Did that help any? |
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