so me a friend who is a girl her friend and her friends friend went bowling this Saturday. it is the most dive bowling ally you would ever see in your life. no one was there at all the whole time we were there. so any hew guess who walks in..............................................................................................................................................................................................my ex wife and her sister and ten of her friends. she does not see me at first and her sister walks over and says hi how are you etc and we are talking and then my ex sees me and starts to cry(it is her birthday party i find out).oh and she has red hair and she was wearing purple lipstick and i was kinda laughing because she looked silly but anyways. so i tell her sister to tell her i am going to finish my game and then i will leave so i wont bother her or make it more uncomfortable than it already was. but my friend i went with and one of my ex wife friends are good friends and i never knew. so funny. small world.

That's a lot of friends and friends friend.

ehh i am not a good writer.

Long story short...friend he was with is friends with ex's friend...LOL...Sorry to hear you had to run into her like that. Wasnt intentional and I wouldnt worry about it..

Well leaving says something good about your character but I think it sounds a little fishey that you all ended up in the same place. Sounds like the Ex still haves some feelings and is struggleing to find a new start. Life is cruel for those who do not have a strong sense of self. Whatever water has gone under the bridge you might want to show you can be a hero and be generous with letting her have her dignity as she regroupes. There is and old Chinese proverb that says loosely to speak softly of your previous choices because they speak of you. Just a thought.

at least it was not one of those non-accidental coincidences

yes this is true.