Topic: Ladies; is it possible for a man to get out of the "Friend Z | |
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I was watching this movie last night "Just Friends" and I was thinking about how I was interested in girls before and either they or I were seeing someone so I we became friends. In most cases the initial attraction was mutual but when we were both free to date each other even if we hooked up or did date it didn't last long. I usually got some variation of "This wouldn't work, we're good friends." So I was wondering if theoretically is it possible to escape from the "friend zone" and what does it take? thank you
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Yeah, it's possible, just depends on why you're in the friend zone to begin with. If she's not feeling "it", then she may never feel it. But, if it's just timing, then, yeah, you can move.
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Nope. When a woman says that she just wants to be friends that basically means that she hates your guts but she doesnt want to be mean about it. Its best to forget about her. You can't be friends with a woman that isn't related to you. Only acquaintances.
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Nope. When a woman says that she just wants to be friends that basically means that she hates your guts but she doesnt want to be mean about it. Its best to forget about her. You can't be friends with a woman that isn't related to you. Only acquaintances. *smacks you on the back of the head Lee* This isn't true!!! But I admit it is hard at least for me to move friends out of the zone simply because I look for qualities in a mate that I don't look for in friends. And things that are humorous and funny in a friend are totally not acceptable in a possible mate. I love my friends with my whole heart and cherish them. But the things that would make me fall in love are not what I typically look for in my friends... |
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I was watching this movie last night "Just Friends" and I was thinking about how I was interested in girls before and either they or I were seeing someone so I we became friends. In most cases the initial attraction was mutual but when we were both free to date each other even if we hooked up or did date it didn't last long. I usually got some variation of "This wouldn't work, we're good friends." So I was wondering if theoretically is it possible to escape from the "friend zone" and what does it take? thank you This excuse is a crock of s***! It is moreso they are afraid of; a: Being hurt by someone close to them that knows quite a bit more than anyone else; or b: A copout when they are afraid of the possibility and outcome being better. It really comes down to the past relationships with boyfriends/fiancee's/parents/siblings/friends, drawn from that comes this psychosis of fear...ultimately of good, but the unknown is what scares people the most. |
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I was watching this movie last night "Just Friends" and I was thinking about how I was interested in girls before and either they or I were seeing someone so I we became friends. In most cases the initial attraction was mutual but when we were both free to date each other even if we hooked up or did date it didn't last long. I usually got some variation of "This wouldn't work, we're good friends." So I was wondering if theoretically is it possible to escape from the "friend zone" and what does it take? thank you This excuse is a crock of s***! It is moreso they are afraid of; a: Being hurt by someone close to them that knows quite a bit more than anyone else; or b: A copout when they are afraid of the possibility and outcome being better. It really comes down to the past relationships with boyfriends/fiancee's/parents/siblings/friends, drawn from that comes this psychosis of fear...ultimately of good, but the unknown is what scares people the most. |
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When I have a guy as a friend, I would never cross that line. Obviously if you do cross it...if it doesn't work out then theres no going back to being just friends. I don't know about everyone else BUT if I become really good friends, I would rather keep him as a good friend. Someone to date is easier to find then a great friend!! JMO
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