Topic: Dont be sad if your single
NJxxxJon's photo
Wed 03/07/07 10:38 AM
Its not cool. Go out. Meet new people. Live your life to about 77
percent full. One day you wont be around to inspire. One day someone
will take your place and have fun too. And.......watch who you meet on
here...haha

DANE1973's photo
Wed 03/07/07 10:48 AM
laugh laugh Well said John

AutumnLee21's photo
Wed 03/07/07 06:05 PM
im single but im not sad lol like they say everything happens for a
reason and one day will be my day lol. Hope that day doesnt come when i
am old and prune like ha halaugh laugh

MikeMontana's photo
Wed 03/07/07 08:17 PM
Whenever you find yourself wishing you werent single, do this one simple
thing - just remember how you felt when you decided enough-was-enough.
That seems to cure most lonliness.

no photo
Wed 03/07/07 08:25 PM
Mike, that is very true -- my motto is "It's better to be miserable and
by myself than be miserable with what's-her-name. This way I don't have
to share the Pepsi."

Marie55's photo
Wed 03/07/07 08:30 PM
True Lex, and when I am miserable by myself, it is much more short-lived
than when the "other half" was around causing the misery. Much better
to be by myself and in control of my space, my feelings, my car, my
money, and my Diet Pepsi.

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 03/07/07 09:09 PM
It's kind of like everything...good and bad points.
For instance: when my kids are home- I wish they would go to a
friend's house and the minute they leave, I wish they were
home. Grass is always greener.

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 03/07/07 09:10 PM
Lex-
I'd let you have your Pepsi all to yourself!!
drinker

romee's photo
Wed 03/07/07 09:15 PM
i'm still single, i don't fell sad about that at all.

no photo
Wed 03/07/07 09:20 PM
Thanks, Nurjoyce, it's nice to see there are still some considerate
people around!! :wink:

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 03/07/07 09:22 PM
any time sweetie!!!

yours_truely's photo
Wed 03/07/07 09:55 PM
sometimes it is a good thing to be single.
you dont have anybody to answer to.
you dont have anybody to explain yourself to.
And you are allowed to go out with friends at night.

mtironroses's photo
Wed 03/07/07 09:59 PM
To be single is nothing to be sad about. I think its just another life
experience, meant to be, for whatever reason.

oldsage's photo
Thu 03/08/07 07:39 AM
Different for me. Married twice, 1 did the honerable thing, don't
regret the kids, but we never should have married; 2 thru the good &
bad, best 16 yrs of my life.
So I am single by choice. Yes it gets lonely, call a friend, take dogs
for walk, go, out on lake & enjoy nature, (need take typing & puter
classes LOL), just do something to get beyond pity party.

LONELY = yes, but we are lonely by choice, there is always something to
do. If nothing else; WRITE ME
laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Thu 03/08/07 07:45 AM
Sage, I'm finally starting to come to grips with the idea that once the
"Right One" is gone, the need for a "Next One" is anticlimactic....

Dallas228808's photo
Thu 03/08/07 07:59 AM
Everthing has it's good and bad points so does being single and not
being single,both have advantages and disadvantages,what are you gonna
do? I like both single and not being single.I guess if I met the right
woman I would probably choose not single who knows it hasn't happen YET.

SadieJ's photo
Thu 03/08/07 08:57 AM
Well said Mr. Dallas...drinker

no photo
Thu 03/08/07 09:06 AM
Bieng single shouldn't be a mke you sad. Look at it as giving yourself a
chance to find yourself. Grow.

no photo
Sat 03/10/07 07:56 PM
well i may hate being single but there are disadvantages as well as
advantages.....but for the most part try to enjoy life go out have fun
meet people and perhaps meet the right girl for me hmmmm is that
possible lol