Topic: i give up
DestinysDream's photo
Sat 07/12/08 11:51 PM
I hope you read my profile. It may help you out. Don't let your head play these games with you.

Never, ever give up hope in finding someone. If you give off a negative persona others will pick up on it and your efforts to find love will come up short. Stay positive! You are an attractive, intelligent woman, go out there and if the guys don't find you, then you find them!

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 07/12/08 11:52 PM
yeah listen to the guy who has his picture morphed with ashton kutcher. paleez!

itsmetina's photo
Sat 07/12/08 11:58 PM
keep waiting go out enjoy yourself and one day the hopefully right man will find you:heart:

brooke007's photo
Sat 07/12/08 11:59 PM


You're 20 and have yourself listed as "Looking for man for marriage" That makes me want to Run; even at my age....


There are men out there that would love to get married again... I would


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Gams's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:06 AM
Seeing as this topic and the statement that followed is an incomplete thought lacking detail. Maybe there are communication issues. Just a thought. Good luck flowerforyou

kerbear73's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:06 AM



You're 20 and have yourself listed as "Looking for man for marriage" That makes me want to Run; even at my age....


There are men out there that would love to get married again... I would


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robert1652's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:10 AM

never give up!!
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hello Brookeflowerforyou

LIJOMA's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:10 AM




You're 20 and have yourself listed as "Looking for man for marriage" That makes me want to Run; even at my age....


There are men out there that would love to get married again... I would


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kerbear, whatcha waiting on?????? SA is single too, and wanting to get remarried, so whats up with you 2 hooking up and meeting????
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robert1652's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:14 AM





You're 20 and have yourself listed as "Looking for man for marriage" That makes me want to Run; even at my age....


There are men out there that would love to get married again... I would


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kerbear, whatcha waiting on?????? SA is single too, and wanting to get remarried, so whats up with you 2 hooking up and meeting????
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Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
catch me a catch
Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Look through your book,
And make me a perfect match

Chava:
Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
I'll bring the veil,
You bring the groom,
Slender and pale.
Bring me a ring for I'm longing to be,
The envy of all I see.

Hodel:
For Papa,
Make him a scholar.

Chava:
For mama,
Make him rich as a king.

Chava and Hodel:
For me, well,
I wouldn't holler
If he were as handsome as anything.

Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
Catch me a catch,
Night after night in the dark I'm alone
So find me match,
Of my own.

(spoken)

Tzeitel:
Since when are you in a match, Chava? I thought you had your eye on your books.

(Hodel chuckles)

Tzeitel con't:
And you have your eye on the Rabbi's son.

Hodel:
Well, why not?
We have only one Rabbi and he has only one son.
Why shouldn't I want the best?

Tzeitel:
Because you're a girl from a poor family.
So whatever Yenta brings, you'll take, right?
Of course right!

(throws scarf over her head, imitating Yenta)
(singing)

Hodel, oh Hodel,
Have I made a match for you!
He's handsome, he's young!
Alright, he's 62.
But he's a nice man, a good catch, true?
True.

I promise you'll be happy,
And even if you're not,
There's more to life than that---
Don't ask me what.

Chava, I found him.
Won't you be a lucky bride!
He's handsome, he's tall,
That is from side to side.
But he's a nice man, a good catch, right?
Right.

You heard he has a temper.
He'll beat you every night,
But only when he's sober,
So you'll alright.

Did you think you'd get a prince?
Well I do the best I can.
With no dowry, no money, no family background
Be glad you got a man!

Chava:
Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
You know that I'm
Still very young.
Please, take your time.

Hodel:
Up to this minute,
I misunderstood
That I could get stuck for good.

Chava and Hodel:
Dear Yenta,
See that he's gentle
Remember,
You were also a bride.
It's not that
I'm sentimental

Chava and Hodel and Tzeitel:
It's just that I'm terrified!

Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Plan me no plans
I'm in no rush
Maybe I've learned
Playing with matches
A girl can get burned
So,
Bring me no ring
Groom me no groom
Find me no find
Catch me no catch
Unless he's a matchless match.

Sluggo's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:16 AM



You're 20 and have yourself listed as "Looking for man for marriage" That makes me want to Run; even at my age....

nothing wrong with looking for a husband ..

There are men out there that would love to get married again... I would


Nope, there isn't anything wrong looking to get married....."EVENTUALLY, IF THINGS WORK OUT"

But there's nothing like getting bombarded with that line of questioning right off the bat:

What do you do for a living?
What kind of car do you drive?
What religion are you?
Do you have kids?
Do you want Kids?
Do you own a home?
Where do you live?
How much money do you make?
Do you want someone to take case of you and your house (to see if they have to work in the future)

This list can go on a while....

Fact is guys, She is TWENTY ("2""0")
What percentage of guys that age are looking to get married?
Now what percentage of those marriages work out? (I can tell you that answer, it's well under 40%)

YourLove1's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:17 AM




You're 20 and have yourself listed as "Looking for man for marriage" That makes me want to Run; even at my age....

nothing wrong with looking for a husband ..

There are men out there that would love to get married again... I would


Nope, there isn't anything wrong looking to get married....."EVENTUALLY, IF THINGS WORK OUT"

But there's nothing like getting bombarded with that line of questioning right off the bat:

What do you do for a living?
What kind of car do you drive?
What religion are you?
Do you have kids?
Do you want Kids?
Do you own a home?
Where do you live?
How much money do you make?
Do you want someone to take case of you and your house (to see if they have to work in the future)

This list can go on a while....

Fact is guys, She is TWENTY ("2""0")
What percentage of guys that age are looking to get married?
Now what percentage of those marriages work out? (I can tell you that answer, it's well under 40%)

thats normal

DestinysDream's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:25 AM

yeah listen to the guy who has his picture morphed with ashton kutcher. paleez!


You are not a very nice person.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:28 AM


yeah listen to the guy who has his picture morphed with ashton kutcher. paleez!


You are not a very nice person.

laugh laugh You're not being honest... don't get mad at me for calling you on it!

DestinysDream's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:35 AM



yeah listen to the guy who has his picture morphed with ashton kutcher. paleez!


You are not a very nice person.

laugh laugh You're not being honest... don't get mad at me for calling you on it!


My ex GF would get drunk and assault me physically and verbally. Why does alcohol do that to some people?


LIJOMA's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:39 AM


yeah listen to the guy who has his picture morphed with ashton kutcher. paleez!


You are not a very nice person.



I :heart: all YOUR pics, DD!

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:44 AM




yeah listen to the guy who has his picture morphed with ashton kutcher. paleez!


You are not a very nice person.

laugh laugh You're not being honest... don't get mad at me for calling you on it!


My ex GF would get drunk and assault me physically and verbally. Why does alcohol do that to some people?




I don't know. I barely ever drink alcohol anymore, and when I do, I don't abuse it.

Is that why you want to be Ashton Kutcher?

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:57 AM



someone tell me what i am doing wrong please
you're not laying in my arms petting my weiner sad sad
If only i was there smooched


Isn't that what got you in trouble in the first place? :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Amathyst2's photo
Sun 07/13/08 06:48 AM
Life is too short to worry about everything all of the time. 99.9% of our worries never happen.

My advice is to sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride. Meet some friends. There isn't a specific time frame for when love will find you. Besides, it's usually better to build a good foundation of friendship before you take the leap. Have some patience. Great things like love are worth waiting for.

creationsfire's photo
Sun 07/13/08 12:18 PM






You're 20 and have yourself listed as "Looking for man for marriage" That makes me want to Run; even at my age....


There are men out there that would love to get married again... I would


flowers flowers flowers flowers





kerbear, whatcha waiting on?????? SA is single too, and wanting to get remarried, so whats up with you 2 hooking up and meeting????
flowers flowers flowers flowers




Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
catch me a catch
Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Look through your book,
And make me a perfect match

Chava:
Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
I'll bring the veil,
You bring the groom,
Slender and pale.
Bring me a ring for I'm longing to be,
The envy of all I see.

Hodel:
For Papa,
Make him a scholar.

Chava:
For mama,
Make him rich as a king.

Chava and Hodel:
For me, well,
I wouldn't holler
If he were as handsome as anything.

Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
Catch me a catch,
Night after night in the dark I'm alone
So find me match,
Of my own.

(spoken)

Tzeitel:
Since when are you in a match, Chava? I thought you had your eye on your books.

(Hodel chuckles)

Tzeitel con't:
And you have your eye on the Rabbi's son.

Hodel:
Well, why not?
We have only one Rabbi and he has only one son.
Why shouldn't I want the best?

Tzeitel:
Because you're a girl from a poor family.
So whatever Yenta brings, you'll take, right?
Of course right!

(throws scarf over her head, imitating Yenta)
(singing)

Hodel, oh Hodel,
Have I made a match for you!
He's handsome, he's young!
Alright, he's 62.
But he's a nice man, a good catch, true?
True.

I promise you'll be happy,
And even if you're not,
There's more to life than that---
Don't ask me what.

Chava, I found him.
Won't you be a lucky bride!
He's handsome, he's tall,
That is from side to side.
But he's a nice man, a good catch, right?
Right.

You heard he has a temper.
He'll beat you every night,
But only when he's sober,
So you'll alright.

Did you think you'd get a prince?
Well I do the best I can.
With no dowry, no money, no family background
Be glad you got a man!

Chava:
Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
You know that I'm
Still very young.
Please, take your time.

Hodel:
Up to this minute,
I misunderstood
That I could get stuck for good.

Chava and Hodel:
Dear Yenta,
See that he's gentle
Remember,
You were also a bride.
It's not that
I'm sentimental

Chava and Hodel and Tzeitel:
It's just that I'm terrified!

Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Plan me no plans
I'm in no rush
Maybe I've learned
Playing with matches
A girl can get burned
So,
Bring me no ring
Groom me no groom
Find me no find
Catch me no catch
Unless he's a matchless match.


I love Fiddler on the Roof! One of my fav movies.........

creationsfire's photo
Sun 07/13/08 04:29 PM
Oh and thanks! Now I have that tune stuck in my head forever, lol.