to get someones attention on this site.. i mean how can someone not answer ur email with a simple no ty if all you wrote was a hi or hello.. people are here for relationships and friends i wish they just give someone a chance b4 immediately dismissing them... just want everyones thought on the subject... member play nice

I know what you mean.

sometimes I don't answer emails... it depends on what was said in the email

it is what it is,


Can't change something your not,

i guess sounds good anyway,

personally if i get an email that is very vague and could easily be copied and pasted to be part of a mass production of them ... i tend to reply back with a no ty ... but at least i reply back HA!

i never write anything explicit or vulger just a good ol' hey whats up maybe a little message depending on there profile...... i dont find myself that ugly or mean to not write back a no ty or something omg.... but its good i guess

Chill

if that girl don't wanna know, forget her.

Proper grammar seems to get replies...don't want to squint eye's to read "i r innterrestted n u".

it's not the fact that they don't write back that neccisarily gets me mad it's the fact that what people are coming to... a simple hey what's up is to much to ask.. but like i said oh well those girls are for the birds

http://mingle2.com/blog/view/mistakes-to-avoid-when-messaging-someone

Hope this helps..

If I'm written an absurd email, I will not respond to it.

well you gotta understand something... alot of times when women respond with "thanks but no thanks" type of emails, even as politly as we can be... the men get all pissy about it and we get mean replies. Sometimes it's just better for us not to reply at all.

ok! check this out!!

Before they changed it on here. if you didn't clear them all your whos viewed you stayed on there & didn't clear after 30 days..

So I started clearing them there was like 1300
guys that looked "normal" & I thought would be fun in the forums I sent Emails to.. way over 100 & I could only paste the same note a few times

I only got like 10 responses back.
a couple thought I worked for the site..

ONE GUY WRITES BACK: What do you want??

WTF!! sure not you BIGGG JJJEEEEEEEERRRRRRKKKKKKKKK!!!

NO! I was nice & said : nothing!!! I was just being nice!

He says oh sorry, I'm a nice guy really!!



WTF!!! Hello!!!
This is a date site too what is wrong with people...

I'm so glad I'm not in the meat market on a mission to get a man these days!

but that's judging all men from a group and is unfair to the one's that soul purpose is to just meet some new people..... nothing like "hey let's meet and on an on" but i do get ur point so i'll try to keep that in consideration next time TY

SO TRUE!!
Then they feel the need to keep bugging you...
Then I turn into a azz & want to rip their fool heads off..

lol of course it's judging, we all do it to some extent. You would be a lil more careful too if you got some of the emails that women get. I have tried many times to be nice and respond, and I get some nasty replies. So most times, I don't even bother.

I you try & find something in their profile that catches your eye & say something like in a question that they should reply to helps too..

some people are just picky I guess, or insecure. I know some girls want guys that got it together when they don't even have their $#!T together........ Don't trip dude. All in good time. You don't get? Not meant to be.

most people don't even read my profile. It says right in there I am looking for friends only lol and I still get the emails "hey cutie, wanna get together" blah blah blah. I even state in my profile that those types of emails will go unanswered... but I still get them