Topic: Letting of steam!
alexiateigra's photo
Sat 07/12/08 10:36 AM
Edited by alexiateigra on Sat 07/12/08 10:37 AM
Am I the only lady that gets sick of sweet talk????? Do men really think that I can be so easily won over?????? Whatever happened to conversation & friendship???????????????

Anyone here feeling the frustration? I am so tired of posers!frustrated

Doesn't anyone read profiles!


Now that I let off some seem, I will say this is not true of all men just the fricken' posers. grumble grumble grumble

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 07/12/08 10:40 AM
I'm glad someone said that it's not true of all men

alexiateigra's photo
Sat 07/12/08 10:42 AM

I'm glad someone said that it's not true of all men


I was just letting some much needed steam & did not want to insult the innocent.

No1sLove's photo
Sat 07/12/08 10:45 AM
OMG...I hear you. To me, sweet talk is only sweet once you know who it's coming from and what it means to them. flowerforyou

alexiateigra's photo
Sat 07/12/08 10:51 AM
Edited by alexiateigra on Sat 07/12/08 10:51 AM

OMG...I hear you. To me, sweet talk is only sweet once you know who it's coming from and what it means to them. flowerforyou


Exactly..............Somehow, it just seems cheap when someone you do not know comes on so strong.

Thanks. I am already in a better mood now that someone else understands. flowerforyou smokin drinker flowerforyou smokin drinker

No1sLove's photo
Sat 07/12/08 10:55 AM


OMG...I hear you. To me, sweet talk is only sweet once you know who it's coming from and what it means to them. flowerforyou


Exactly..............Somehow, it just seems cheap when someone you do not know comes on so strong.

Thanks. I am already in a better mood now that someone else understands. flowerforyou smokin drinker flowerforyou smokin drinker
I just tune it out as best I can so they don't ruin the meaning of those words for me altogether. I do like to appreciate them when offered in sincerity. flowerforyou

alexiateigra's photo
Sat 07/12/08 10:59 AM



OMG...I hear you. To me, sweet talk is only sweet once you know who it's coming from and what it means to them. flowerforyou


Exactly..............Somehow, it just seems cheap when someone you do not know comes on so strong.

Thanks. I am already in a better mood now that someone else understands. flowerforyou smokin drinker flowerforyou smokin drinker
I just tune it out as best I can so they don't ruin the meaning of those words for me altogether. I do like to appreciate them when offered in sincerity. flowerforyou


I think that I haven't had my third cup of coffee for the day or something. drinker drinker drinker

No1sLove's photo
Sat 07/12/08 11:01 AM




OMG...I hear you. To me, sweet talk is only sweet once you know who it's coming from and what it means to them. flowerforyou


Exactly..............Somehow, it just seems cheap when someone you do not know comes on so strong.

Thanks. I am already in a better mood now that someone else understands. flowerforyou smokin drinker flowerforyou smokin drinker
I just tune it out as best I can so they don't ruin the meaning of those words for me altogether. I do like to appreciate them when offered in sincerity. flowerforyou


I think that I haven't had my third cup of coffee for the day or something. drinker drinker drinker
laugh drinker laugh drinker

Yeah, I had a crazy morning with a sick doggy, so am just now having my first cup. Are we cranky you think? laugh

alexiateigra's photo
Sat 07/12/08 11:09 AM





OMG...I hear you. To me, sweet talk is only sweet once you know who it's coming from and what it means to them. flowerforyou


Exactly..............Somehow, it just seems cheap when someone you do not know comes on so strong.

Thanks. I am already in a better mood now that someone else understands. flowerforyou smokin drinker flowerforyou smokin drinker
I just tune it out as best I can so they don't ruin the meaning of those words for me altogether. I do like to appreciate them when offered in sincerity. flowerforyou


I think that I haven't had my third cup of coffee for the day or something. drinker drinker drinker
laugh drinker laugh drinker I hate to admit but, yeah.

I hope you little fury one is feelin' better. I am a dog person but, I have kitties who I love and adore!

Nice meeting you.
Take Care!

Yeah, I had a crazy morning with a sick doggy, so am just now having my first cup. Are we cranky you think? laugh

Tarzan13's photo
Sat 07/12/08 07:35 PM
I read the profiles after I scan real quick to see if I qualify. Like age, bad and good habits, basically any specific requests. If I fail one, I don't read, I move on to the next. J

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 07/12/08 07:54 PM
To me it helps make it easier for me to spot a loser. It's easy to see how fraudulent a person is when it's laid on thick like mayonnaise...

There are real compliments that go a long way, and it's always nice to see them not be sicky sweet and super generic blanket statements.

Heather70's photo
Mon 07/14/08 06:39 PM
I know what you mean....

Once they start all the sweet talk, I get on the defensive... 'what do they want', etc.

If they would just realize that we would like them for what they really are and not the act, they might get what they want. Or something WE want...

I want a 'real' guy myself.

beachbum069's photo
Mon 07/14/08 06:43 PM
I like to not sweet talk, so if anyone wants to talk to an honest caring guy, I'm it.
Plus I suck at mushy talk.blushing

alexiateigra's photo
Mon 07/14/08 06:44 PM

I know what you mean....

Once they start all the sweet talk, I get on the defensive... 'what do they want', etc.

If they would just realize that we would like them for what they really are and not the act, they might get what they want. Or something WE want...

I want a 'real' guy myself.


Thanks, Heather. And don't we all!!!!!

alexiateigra's photo
Mon 07/14/08 06:45 PM

I like to not sweet talk, so if anyone wants to talk to an honest caring guy, I'm it.
Plus I suck at mushy talk.blushing


Do I see Das Bier in Das userpic????? Das ist sehr Gut.:banana:

tony39h's photo
Sat 08/02/08 01:20 AM
girl don't let any man tell ya he was reading ur profile first
before he looked to see pic

it just ant so
the lod saying men think with there d***
well not always
but yeah pic frist


alexiateigra's photo
Tue 08/05/08 05:16 PM

girl don't let any man tell ya he was reading ur profile first
before he looked to see pic

it just ant so
the lod saying men think with there d***
well not always
but yeah pic frist




Hi Tony,

Yes, this is the old wives tales & it has some truth but, is really men or society????? In my case, I do not have any pics of myself or anything that is provocative in any of my pics. Unfortantely, there are fools that think that all women want is to hear gushing meaningless compliments. Worst yet, there are women who are naive enough to sometimes fall for these users.

This is by means not every man or woman. I know many guys that treat all women with the respect and vice versa. This is just a small population, but a truly annoying one.

Since I am most definetely not naive, the men that do pour on the compliments as if there was no tomorrow tend to piss me off because I know the game that they are playing & I know how they will hurt someone (not me), but someone that is innocent. Thus, I get a little pissed off. Plus, I had not had my full cup of coffee the day I began this thread so, I was a tad irratable..................lol.......................

no photo
Thu 08/21/08 11:48 AM
well I know im a guy and when a woman sweet talks you whats does it mean is she covering up something if she keeps doing it all the time or is she just in love