Okay, say your in a relationship, a serious one, but their are bumps in the road. Is it wrong, if you meet someone, not do anything with them, but be very good friends and keep them close so you don't have a chance at magic, but miss out on it, because your afraid to look ahead, or look behind.

Life never pans out the way you think it will, but it always works out for the best. I say as long as your honest and upfront there is nothing wrong with it.

isnt love built on that one chance taken anyway?

umm.. if you're in a serious relationship then you shouldn't be straying elsewhere or even WANTING to meet anyone else.
There are always BUMPS in a relationship it's how you work through them. If you feel you're missing out on something then perhaps you should take a closer look at your relationship, it may not be for you.

who's straying, just because your in a serious relationship you can't have friends, love just happens, maybe trying to box it in is what ruins it.

I THINK IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOME ONE IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MANY CLOSE FEMALE OR MALE FRIENDS YOU HAVE AS LONG AS YOU KNOW WHERE YOUR HEART LAYS. AN ALWAYS REMEMBER EVERY THING IN LIFE HAPPENS FOR A REASON.

BINGO!! your my new favorite person!

Is it wrong, if you meet someone, not do anything with them, but be very good friends and keep them close so you don't have a chance at magic, but miss out on it, because your afraid to look ahead, or look behind.


By the sounds of that... you basically want to start building a "friendship" with someone new so that if your now existing relationship doesn't work out. you have someone to move on too! WRONG!

LOL GLAD I COULD HELP

nah, if my relationship doesnt work out, i'm taking a break for about a year, but thanks for getting all upset at me, that's always nice

What is most wrong is being judgmental. Who should dictate what is right or wrong. We can only say what our society deems it acceptable or not. Even then who said that the society is correct

exactly

why are you asking if you can't take an opposite opinion? if i was your girlfriend i'd be suspicious of your motives. sounds like you have someone on the sidelines for sure.

If you are in a SERIOUS relationship and you are even THINKING that the relationship might not work, so you have someone on backup, then you probably should not be in the relationship to begin with.

i think i phrased this question wrong. anyway, nope no one on the sideline. next time i guess i should stick with friends who know the whole story, my fault.

Ding ding ding! We have a winner!