well, you definitely know what to say to get the ladies to like you

i think you want us to believe your some sorta hugh hefner in the real world....


but i dont believe that...this site works for plenty of people...maybe its your attitude not your looks

I agree, I take awful pics, but would have to say im far from being a dog. Im very witty, smart, playful, and love to have a good time. Enjoy great company and feel that I am good company to be around. But unless I take the stellar photo, done up to a nine, no attention at all in the internet world. And it is frustrating because the guys that I message on here would definitely try to hit on my in public, but on here, they just pass me by. I feel your pain, LOL

I don't think your pics are all that bad really. You could show a bit more of your personality in your written profile if you wanted to spark someone's interest with more than pics you don't seem to like though.

Personally...I'm thinking you're using too much vinegar and not enough honey to catch them bees.

If you spent more time on the forums you have a better chance of seeing who's compatible before having to get involved in long drawn out emails first. But you might do better to ease up on people who give honest opinions that YOU asked for...since we are all friendly and accepting of each others opinions here. ..well, for the most part.

Another thing that may not even bear mentioning is that you could treat others pics in the same light as you view your own...some people will look better than their pics and others will look worse, so working more off their personality would get you further...it's usually pretty easy to picture that clear enough.

Yeah, that is really all I'm saying. I don't think I'm some hot stud or anything. I just know that I do better in real world situations than online. If other people want to attack me personally for it? whatever. I'm just trying to say if you get rejected a lot online, that doesn't mean you aren't a quality man or woman. I'm glad online works so well for some, best of luck to them.

You can go on dates in cyber space? WTF?! Is that like taking a girl out for a fine evening of Yahoo Pool?

I think you're just mad that the camera doesn't lie and you really are geeky. It's not a terrible thing, but it can be if you don't embrace who you are. Just admit it. Come out of the closet.

well since i look geeky and ugly I guess i am not a good choice either

I cannot believe I read this entire post. I must really be bored..

I have read through this whole thread and this is the best response yet!!!!!!

Seriously! Me, too! I'm amazed that anyone would post such arrogant crap and even more amazed that someone would argue with him.

anyone?

I keep thinking the heat is making people mean, but then I remember that some people are always mean.

And you know mean!

I wasn't specifically targeting you, but for your info, my post was playful, while yours is simply harsh.

Ok, this is the last time I am going to respond to this post. I'm tired of coming on here everyday and clicking on "My Topics" to see that 20 more people ripped on me on here. I obviously made a mistake by using myself as an example in this post and it was taken the wrong way and also at times responded out of frustration without thinking first. Not everyone is going to like me, I know that and people will believe what they want to believe.

i think people are the same on line or off once you get to know them even the not so good looking become very good looking so lets get past te looks lets just get to know some one for who he/she is sorry this was just my thought

Thank you