Topic: Chivalry
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Thu 07/10/08 01:57 AM
I've always been the kinda guy that will hold a door, or help a girl when she is struggling with something. But in the last month alone, ive had 4 girls flip out over this, basically they said they dont need a guy to do stuff they can do it their self, and im just stunned cause i was just being nice. Has this ever happened to you?

Etrain's photo
Thu 07/10/08 01:58 AM
yup...its the way of the world now...I let them open the door for medrinker drinker drinker

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Thu 07/10/08 02:00 AM
I hold doors open for people regardless of sex and such things. Sometimes people think I am gay or something and do not say thanks, or I dunno.... Sometimes they don't say anything or even acknowledge what I did. So I am like "You're Welcome asshole!" if they don't say anything or if they just mumble. Usually when men mumble or not show thanks, they are just intimidated anyways.

sweetandstrong's photo
Thu 07/10/08 02:02 AM
I have never stopped and gentleman from being gentleman. Maybe it's the company?

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Thu 07/10/08 02:02 AM
I love when a guy opens doors, pulls out chairs, etc., for me. I think guys SHOULD do this. Whoever these woman were, they need to be thankful that there are still guys willing to do these things!

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Thu 07/10/08 02:08 AM
Edited by aguy419 on Thu 07/10/08 02:08 AM
to bad others dont feel like you, im startin to just say f it, thay can can do it their self, i hate to be that way, but im tired of getting chewed out by people when im just being nice.

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Thu 07/10/08 02:15 AM

I've always been the kinda guy that will hold a door, or help a girl when she is struggling with something. But in the last month alone, ive had 4 girls flip out over this, basically they said they dont need a guy to do stuff they can do it their self, and im just stunned cause i was just being nice. Has this ever happened to you?


Dude, let me tell you....that happens to me CONSTANTLY....finally, I just got sick of it and said, "Hey, ya know what? This is me, if you don't like it, then let's call it quits now."

I won't date a woman who won't let me do these things for her...not at all...

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Thu 07/10/08 02:20 AM
Sadly this seems to be common. Actualy met a girl and she asked what kind of guy I am. I said I like to pay for the first date which I think a man should and then said I like to open a door or pull out a chair at a resteraunt and she replied "ewww, thats gay" I was stunnedhuh huh huh huh



I've always been the kinda guy that will hold a door, or help a girl when she is struggling with something. But in the last month alone, ive had 4 girls flip out over this, basically they said they dont need a guy to do stuff they can do it their self, and im just stunned cause i was just being nice. Has this ever happened to you?


Dude, let me tell you....that happens to me CONSTANTLY....finally, I just got sick of it and said, "Hey, ya know what? This is me, if you don't like it, then let's call it quits now."

I won't date a woman who won't let me do these things for her...not at all...

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Thu 07/10/08 02:21 AM


I've always been the kinda guy that will hold a door, or help a girl when she is struggling with something. But in the last month alone, ive had 4 girls flip out over this, basically they said they dont need a guy to do stuff they can do it their self, and im just stunned cause i was just being nice. Has this ever happened to you?


Dude, let me tell you....that happens to me CONSTANTLY....finally, I just got sick of it and said, "Hey, ya know what? This is me, if you don't like it, then let's call it quits now."

I won't date a woman who won't let me do these things for her...not at all...



I wont date a guy who doesnt do those things for me.

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Thu 07/10/08 02:27 AM
Edited by Spaceman2008 on Thu 07/10/08 02:27 AM



I've always been the kinda guy that will hold a door, or help a girl when she is struggling with something. But in the last month alone, ive had 4 girls flip out over this, basically they said they dont need a guy to do stuff they can do it their self, and im just stunned cause i was just being nice. Has this ever happened to you?


Dude, let me tell you....that happens to me CONSTANTLY....finally, I just got sick of it and said, "Hey, ya know what? This is me, if you don't like it, then let's call it quits now."

I won't date a woman who won't let me do these things for her...not at all...



I wont date a guy who doesnt do those things for me.


GOOD! Do me a favor and stay that way, OK? flowerforyou

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Thu 07/10/08 02:28 AM
Some women are just too busy burning their bras! laugh

Not ALL women are like that.. :smile:

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Thu 07/10/08 02:29 AM




I've always been the kinda guy that will hold a door, or help a girl when she is struggling with something. But in the last month alone, ive had 4 girls flip out over this, basically they said they dont need a guy to do stuff they can do it their self, and im just stunned cause i was just being nice. Has this ever happened to you?


Dude, let me tell you....that happens to me CONSTANTLY....finally, I just got sick of it and said, "Hey, ya know what? This is me, if you don't like it, then let's call it quits now."

I won't date a woman who won't let me do these things for her...not at all...



I wont date a guy who doesnt do those things for me.


GOOD! Do me a favor and stay that way, OK? flowerforyou



Okay. glasses

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Thu 07/10/08 02:36 AM
Don't let a few rotten apples spoil the whole bunch. Some of us will always prefer gentlemen. flowerforyou