I have made a lot of good friends here, a few who I imagine to be long term friendships...even life long.

I have even met the love of my life too.

Met great people on here...

In person ive met Fallinangel82..very sweet girl

DTHRomeo..is awesome.. we hung out AS FRIENDS for a long long time..Hes exactly as he is in the threads, sweet, kind and a genuine person..love him to death...

talk to several on the phone..guys and girls all are great people.. havent met anyone ive had a relationship with

Congrats!!Good for you

I have met a few friends on here. But I have difficulties getting to know people in this forum. I think it's because I'm gay..

Well, I have yet to meet a close friend, I've been a new member for only a short time. I am just interested in all of your thoughts and stories. Thank you all to whose posted.

That's incredible, the love of your life!!! And online!!! I'm very happy for you!!!!!

See what I mean?? I posted and the thread died..

It takes time. Like over a 1,000 posts.

I dont think its because your gay.....its that devil child look youre giving me right now!!!

Definitely...under 300 posts is nothing to be discouraged about yet. Just put yourself out there and give people a chance to know you. You'll make friends in no time.

Me? A ? Nahhhh...

You have to watch yourself too. It's just like real life. Sometimes it doesn't work but have to keep looking.

I have a lot of friends and I love each one of them. Some I know a lot better than others. It's definitely worth investing the time on the forums and with people off of the forums.

Do you know how hard it is not to play with what you said but the thing about you saying, it's hard getting to know people on the forum. That takes time for some to warm up

I U too baby!!!!

I met some women on JSU that i wish i hadnt,
But i also met several that alough we dont communicate anymore i am glad to have known them.
One young ladie sent me her telephone # and wanted me to call her, we visited on the phone several times, then one time i was talking away, and was hearing a noise like static, when i stoped talking wondering why she was being so quiet, I found out that the noise was her snoring,
she was laying on her bed and fell asleep.

ok as ive been here almost a year and a half.. if hadnt made any good friends then i would be a serious loser.. heheh
im joking..


seriously.. ive met some inperson.. some i am still friends with. .some not anymore..
as for the realtionship matter...

i have had 3 "serious" relationships from here...
one moved across the country.. i was sorely disapointed.. we are stillfriends.. he moved back.. but we tried it for 4 months first.. long ass 4 months!!!uugghh....

one lied.. cheated.. broke my heart.. lol.. im over it now..
we are becoming friends again.. ok it wasnt that serious in retrosect.. as it was only 7 weeks of my life.. but at the time it was excruseating!!!

and one.. took my heart... holds it where his used to be.. but is no longer as he gave his to me...
we are going on 4 months..have been in contact every day a zillion times a day.. and have been in person on a couple occasions....
seriously hopeing that this works out....



as has been said before...
its just like real life..

friends have come and gone in reallife.. as have heartbreaks and feelings.. and relationships have evolved into friendships...



best of luck to all..

(and amathyst... you are beautiful.. and smart... and a great person from what i have seen in the threads.... give it time... it took me a year...)