I need some advice. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me last Thursday and I found out that she is seeing another guy since Saturday. The guy she is seeing now is 6-7 years older then her and claims he is the nicest guy in the world when I am only 2 years older then she is. I believe that talk is cheap and he is just going to leave her once he gets what he wants. With that said, when I was dating my girlfriend she bought me a chair as a gift. Now she wants me to help her and give her the money for the chair by this Friday otherwise her car gets taken away. She claims that we are still friends and that she will come over and visit me every once in awhile. The biggest problem is that I still have feelings for her and now I don’t really know what to do...any advice???

Give her the chair back and don't give her any money. She is just trying to get one last shot in at using you.

Light the chair on fire, when she comes to get the money throw that big son of a b itch right out the door and say, I lost some money in the cushions, maybe you can find it.
She is taking advantage of you because your nice, like I've been saying for years, you gotta keep a crazy guy in the back of you mind, that way when stuff like this happens, he can do the job.

sounds like it's over. I'd give her the chair back and would not give her any money. If I was heart broken over her I wouldn't want the memory and would try to move on with life. Easier said then done though. Good luck

a gift is a gift, and she should not ask for the money after the fact....if anything, give the chair back, or tell her to ask the "nicest guy in the world" to help her out...but don't give her the money.

a gift is a gift, and she should not ask for the money after the fact....if anything, give the chair back, or tell her to ask the "nicest guy in the world" to help her out...but don't give her the money.

Let them take her car. That would be awesome

Agree, don't wast your time on this one.

wow no offense u got dumped and she wants the chair back..umm..its a no brainer, give her the darn chair and tell her to shove it..lol..babe u deserve soo much better..

I agree with everyone here. Give her the chair back and dont give her any money.

Put the chair outside..tell her to come get it next to the curb, there's no reason or need for her to see you... Sorry, but you most often than not, can't remain friends after a relationship. As far as the new man, let him pay for her stuff. If she has a new man as of Sat/Sun.. chances are GREAT that she had him BEFORE she broke up with you.. nobody hooks up that fast!

fosuck dat biznotch. Lets da man takes her ride fo rizzle

I'm so sorry that happend to you,and you look like a nice guy, I know your hurt ,but to tell you the truth, your better of with out her.

I think I know what I must do...another problem I have is that I work in a grocery store and her parents come in often. Her parents are awesome but if I do this to her I think they might be ticked at me. I'm a very sensitive guy and I don't like it when anybody is upset with me. It's going to be so hard to let her go because I felt I got so close...

It's really hard to be the door mat...Keep in mind that she is stepping on you and kicking you aside...That's NOT the girl that you want to be serious with if she has the wandering eyes. Giving the chair back will not get you in bad with the parents. If they are worth their salt...they will understand.
Just look at all the great ladies right here!! She was NOT the only girl on this planet that can have love for ya!! Just listen to that country song"I got a new girl friend" Then go get a good one!!!

She got behind on the car over time, not just about the chair. Give her the chair and the boot too. As for her folks, they know her too.
It will be fine Dude.

sAY SEE YA!!!

keep the chair.. it was a gift.. tell her you are sorry bout the car, but you cannot help her.. tell her its best that you do NOT remain friends as she will continue to try and use you and will do so over and over untill you stop letting her...

as for her parents.. they are adults.. one of 2 things will happen here.. they will know what has happened.. will understand and feel bad for you.. or she will manipulate what happened and make you the bad guy..
whichever it is.. remember.. they are HER parents.. and when the chips are down.. they will choose her.. its their job...
when they come in.. be polite profesional. and leave it at that..
im sorry to say.. but when you lost her. you lost them too...

just call the little man in your head Larry, unless your named Larry then that could get confusing. seriously, don't go out like a chump, go out like a madman from hell.