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If my profile comes across as blah, that is because thats how I feel right now. I'm sick of writing to women I'm attracted to and getting no response. I wish I was gay sometimes, I really do. I'm just so sick of attractive women. Unattractive women are great except I'm not attracted to them...it's a catch 22
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well my friend, I am no casanova, and get plenty of the no responses and rejections, but that doesnt mean that the search is over. Remember you are who you are and what you show you are is what you will be judged by by the type of women you want in your life.
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We all get tired of searching---however, I believe anything that is worth something takes hard work and effort!
Dont give up...maybe just stop looking, thats when people say it happens anyway Good luck, babe! |
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Edited by
Alterego1961
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Wed 07/09/08 04:46 PM
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I think you need to think about something we tend to forget. Looks can be fleeting, but personality lasts a lifetime. A persons looks can change in an instant in case of an accident or something. Long term looks will change no matter what we think. You need to consider what you would do if say your mate was badly burned in a freak "smoking while putting on hairspray" accident. How about a more likely possibility such as losing her hair due to cancer treatments? Would you stay with her because you love her, or would you leave her because she wasn't hot any more? The answer to that question will possibly open your mind up to many other things, regardless of how you answer the question... You need to evaluate yourself and what it is you really want from a relationship. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, you just need to find and accept that beauty...
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I think you need to think about something we tend to forget. Looks can be fleeting, but personality lasts a lifetime. A persons looks can change in an instant in case of an accident or something. Long term looks will change no matter what we think. You need to consider what you would do if say your mate was badly burned in a freak "smoking while putting on hairspray" accident. How about a more likely possibility such as losing her hair due to cancer treatments? Would you stay with her because you love her, or would you leave her because she wasn't hot any more? The answer to that question will possibly open your mind up to many other things, regardless of how you answer the question... You need to evaluate yourself and what it is you really want from a relationship. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, you just need to find and accept that beauty... |
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If my profile comes across as blah, that is because thats how I feel right now. I'm sick of writing to women I'm attracted to and getting no response. I wish I was gay sometimes, I really do. I'm just so sick of attractive women. Unattractive women are great except I'm not attracted to them...it's a catch 22 Everyone on your friends list is quite attractive so what are u complaining about. |
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If my profile comes across as blah, that is because thats how I feel right now. I'm sick of writing to women I'm attracted to and getting no response. I wish I was gay sometimes, I really do. I'm just so sick of attractive women. Unattractive women are great except I'm not attracted to them...it's a catch 22 Everyone on your friends list is quite attractive so what are u complaining about. |
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I feel your pain!
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