Topic: heres my question ladies
Jill298's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:25 PM



Oh, boy. Pulling up a chair next to Jill.laugh


Can I grab the chair next to you guys??:wink:


Hey, Missy. Guess it's just you and me. Jill decided to get in the middle of this mess.laugh Great chips and beer, though, huh?flowerforyou
laugh laugh sometimes I just can't keep my mouth shutoops

rainysky39's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:27 PM




Oh, boy. Pulling up a chair next to Jill.laugh


Can I grab the chair next to you guys??:wink:


Hey, Missy. Guess it's just you and me. Jill decided to get in the middle of this mess.laugh Great chips and beer, though, huh?flowerforyou
laugh laugh sometimes I just can't keep my mouth shutoops


ME either!! My opinion..Anyone, man or woman when they really decide that they want something REAL...will give up the games and the playing with people and settle down to focus on the good things they really want.

Jill298's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:28 PM
really it doesn't matter what you put in your profile, no one reads them anywaylaugh

rainysky39's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:28 PM

really it doesn't matter what you put in your profile, no one reads them anywaylaugh


LOL true..well I do, but one of a few I guess!

anthsm22's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:30 PM
for some of us as we begin to get older and quit the game playing, we actually can reform (mature, grow) to become more aware and secure about ourselves where we are no longer needing to thrive off of quantity but rather quality. But then when we open ourselves up to become more compromising to what women say they want and alow ourselves to be open and communicate in more than one sylable words, but then we are called wimps and have no backbone

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:33 PM
How could you not know that kind of basic information if you asked a few basic questions and made a few basic observations? People who date bums should not whine about it later.

awolf1010's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:33 PM
:tongue: yep!!!! 100% grade A BAD!!!!
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I even tore the tag off my matteressdevil devil

tucsonsunsh1ne's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:40 PM
I agree with Jill, just be up front, you never know maybe that will make you the nice guy. Did you ever think of asking a girl what "nice guy" means to her?

For my friend that means conservative and respectful. I would be bored on the first date!:laughing:

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:41 PM
Nice guys don't finish last. Weak submissive guys who allow women to act like babies get dumped when they can't continue to support their tantrums. Tantrums that were most likely predictable by past and current demanding behavior but were over looked because they wanted whatever "rewards" that were offered by the woman at the time; ego strokeing, drugs, alcohol, sex, money, status, the ability to say gotcha to friends, parents, siblings, or society in general. They cut their noses off to spite their faces.

soxfan94's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:46 PM

Nice guys don't finish last. Weak submissive guys who allow women to act like babies get dumped when they can't continue to support their tantrums. Tantrums that were most likely predictable by past and current demanding behavior but were over looked because they wanted whatever "rewards" that were offered by the woman at the time; ego strokeing, drugs, alcohol, sex, money, status, the ability to say gotcha to friends, parents, siblings, or society in general. They cut their noses off to spite their faces.


Yes!
Yes!
and yes!

This is absolutely true. Anyone who calls himself a nice guy is likely to be a self empathizer who is too busy worrying about being "nice" to actually establish a personality and uniqueness.

anthsm22's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:50 PM
soxfan, couldnt help but notice your here too sharing the space with the "nice" guys

soxfan94's photo
Tue 07/08/08 06:53 PM

soxfan, couldnt help but notice your here too sharing the space with the "nice" guys


I'm not sure I understand what you're implying...that I shouldn't hang out with nice guys?

rainysky39's photo
Tue 07/08/08 07:32 PM
Some of you are too young to realize what nice guys/girls are really all about.

No1sLove's photo
Tue 07/08/08 07:36 PM

:tongue: yep!!!! 100% grade A BAD!!!!
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I even tore the tag off my matteressdevil devil
Gotta love a rebel. I have tags on 4 mattresses and a dozen couch cushions! I will have to count pillows, but have quite a few of those too. Tempting you at all...bad bad boy? pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork

No1sLove's photo
Tue 07/08/08 07:37 PM
I think everyone's idea of nice is different. I think a lot of women think nice means someone they can walk on and get their way at every turn...wonder why this would get boring in a short time. ohwell

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 07/08/08 07:38 PM

ok.......ladies. I scream through reading the profiles of you all and there seems to be a recurring theme to what you are looking for. "a good guy". If thats the case, then why is it that the good guy always finishes last?


I'm a mean guy.smokin

brooke007's photo
Tue 07/08/08 07:38 PM
ive never said i was looking for a "nice" guy

no photo
Tue 07/08/08 07:40 PM
what?noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

all that time i spent fine tuning it....and.....well.....crapohwell


really it doesn't matter what you put in your profile, no one reads them anywaylaugh

awolf1010's photo
Tue 07/08/08 07:43 PM


:tongue: yep!!!! 100% grade A BAD!!!!
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I even tore the tag off my matteressdevil devil
Gotta love a rebel. I have tags on 4 mattresses and a dozen couch cushions! I will have to count pillows, but have quite a few of those too. Tempting you at all...bad bad boy? pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork
bring it on baby!!!!!drool drool drool

lifestooshort6's photo
Tue 07/08/08 07:44 PM

for some of us as we begin to get older and quit the game playing, we actually can reform (mature, grow) to become more aware and secure about ourselves where we are no longer needing to thrive off of quantity but rather quality. But then when we open ourselves up to become more compromising to what women say they want and alow ourselves to be open and communicate in more than one sylable words, but then we are called wimps and have no backbone


you articulated that statement very well

it has been known to happen, sadly, there is a fine line between compromising and wimp, so it seems