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Topic: Emotional pain
MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:21 AM

You never get rid of it...you learn to cope and deal with it.
Depending on the cause there are a multitude of ways to help try to cope...
~talking is a must, find a great listener - (it is not as easy as it sounds)
~journal
~vent
~remember the stages of grief - they aren't just for death
~go to Goodwill, buy the cheapest set of dishes they have, break them one by one to deal with anger
~stand on a ledge or bank of a lake with a handful of pebbles, give each pebble a feeling or emotion you need to rid yourself of as you toss it away, it's cleansing
~be patient with yourself - there is no set timeline for 'getting over something'
~be kind to yourself
~pray - whatever that means to you
~find your creative outlet - gardening, music, art, painting, sewing, writing...
~one step at a time, two steps forward, one back
~time - as much as I hate that, it does heal
flowerforyou




and if that doesn't work, I still know people that know people that can take care of that for you Mirror!
bigsmile Good advice:heart:

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:22 AM

Arent you glad you dont have to pee out of your eyes???noway sad laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
laugh I amlaugh

guyguy1225's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:23 AM

flowerforyou Emotional pain... how do you get rid of it? flowerforyou
analyze it ,categorize it , then file it for good:thumbsup:

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Mon 07/07/08 12:23 AM


Arent you glad you dont have to pee out of your eyes???noway sad laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
laugh I amlaugh
You would be amazed at the crap that comes out of peoples mouths!!!laugh laugh

guyguy1225's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:29 AM



Arent you glad you dont have to pee out of your eyes???noway sad laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
laugh I amlaugh
You would be amazed at the crap that comes out of peoples mouths!!!laugh laugh
or the sh*t people hear !!:laughing:

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Mon 07/07/08 12:31 AM
ahhhhhhhhhh the verbal diarrhea!!! If we could only make it stop!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:31 AM


flowerforyou Emotional pain... how do you get rid of it? flowerforyou
analyze it ,categorize it , then file it for good:thumbsup:
drinker bigsmile drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:31 AM

ahhhhhhhhhh the verbal diarrhea!!! If we could only make it stop!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh
laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 07/07/08 12:32 AM
what was the question again??? I think we need a new topic......hurry up mirror!!!laugh drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:37 AM

what was the question again??? I think we need a new topic......hurry up mirror!!!laugh drinker
ohwell The mods said I have to slow down ohwell I have to wait a while before I can make another threadflowerforyou

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Mon 07/07/08 12:38 AM
ok email me the question adn I will put it up!!!laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/07/08 12:40 AM
flowerforyou Thanks Gypsy.flowerforyou I'll go ahead and post a thread since Ive had a couple people ask meflowerforyou

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 07/07/08 06:10 AM

flowerforyou Emotional pain... how do you get rid of it? flowerforyou


Well, if you're a guy, a really macho guy, first you act all mean and stuff, then eventually, when no one's looking, you check your eyelids for leaks. Having found said leaks, you then make sure no one noticed, continue to act tough and then when you're finally in a private place, cry your eyes out and then on some occasions, drink to oblivion.

I'm actually quite fortunate in this area. I just feel them, and let them pass, like gas, and then rate the fart that it produces. Funny this topic came up, and especially since the mods killed the MAN HURT thread, which was some angry guy in California who was really a hurt guy in California. At least that's how it looked, based on how angry and tough he was acting. Many of us of the male persuasion overcomplicate feelings, often masking pain and fear with anger, with myself not being much of an exception on occasion.

mcattygarnett's photo
Mon 07/07/08 06:13 AM
I havent been able to rid myself of it yet.tears

rzepkow1's photo
Mon 07/07/08 06:16 AM
trugde through it,
grieve over it,
learn from it,
pray about it,
and move forward...

Goofball73's photo
Mon 07/07/08 06:23 AM
I wallow in self pity for about a week....then take out my frustrations with some FPS games (Ya know, kill something and not feel bad but feel better (emotionally) cause you are taking out your frustrations on a video game....it is very theraputic)....then get off my arse and give the world the finger...then pray for forgiveness....then move along and wait until someone else causes me grief....then repeat the process.

LAMom's photo
Mon 07/07/08 09:51 AM

flowerforyou Emotional pain... how do you get rid of it? flowerforyou


You learn to forgive,,, and then in my own opinion are you able to push forward,,,

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Mon 07/07/08 10:15 AM
Take a small amount. Lather. Rinse and repeat!!laugh

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