Always find the wrong guys. I fall for someone, and explain my past/life to them so they know why I'm not comfortable about meeting them right away but they still push it. I sometime blame it on myself, I fall fast someone. And it always ends, so maybe if I dont fall so fast not hard for someone it might work out for a long time.


I fall for guys, that respect,love, and care for me, and understand tha my family is my number one thing in my lige. While dating the guy I like, I always see the ture side of him. And sometimes it is not the nice side, I think I should know as much as I can with the person before I fall again.

I'm just confused...

I dont know..some advice would be lovely.

Sometimes it doesnt get any easier with age. Will be 41 soon and its still a mystery at times.

Please BARE with you???

I believe you.

That might be the problem right there!!!

understand that i am confused and it might not make sense.

excuse me..i didnt ask for smartness.

I dont think that it is easy at any age.

Please accept my apologies then...

I just dont know, if I am over looking someone. A real close guy friend of mine, that I see like all the time told me before he would treat me like a princess. He works for everything he has, and he does have a son from his marriage. He is now divorced and been single since. When I'm with him I see him as like an older brother and best guy friend. I had a few people ask me while dont I date him, I just cant. But I know he would be an amazing person to live with and grow old with.

I just dont know, if I should try this site again for love. Or if I should try it with my guy friend, but I dont want to intured on him..or even some how mess our friendship up.

Makes me wonder ,what type of guy your falling for

the wrong ones, it seem like it. all the time.

You are only 19 yrs old and have so much life ahead of you to even worry about having a man in your life. I got married the first time at 19 and wish a thousand times over that I could go back and do it all again only this time know then what I know now.I would have NEVER EVER married, especially him. It made me a stronger person yes, but almost at the expense of my sanity and life. Get your EDUCATION, your career, own place and then worry about if you want a man to appreciate you for the person that you are.

41 WOW you're old

You have your whole life ahead of you. I would concentrate on what you want to do with it first. Do you want to go to college? What do you want to do with your life?

Finding "Mr Right" is great if your emotionally ready. I think settling for him would be wrong. Make healthier choices for YOU, not because he says so. Don't ever settle for something that doesn't feel right.

I guess It can be confusing,hang in there, P.S. dont let anyone get you down. good luck

Old enough to take you on!!

Yes, I do want to go to college and I plan on it..I know what I want to study. I know what I want in my life its very clear to me. I know, I follow my heart/feeling 100%.

Someday I will find him, and I know it.

Try reading the book by Dr. H. Hendrix called "Getting the Love You Want". It has some interesting insight as to why we always keep picking the "wrong" people in relationships.