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Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Sat 07/05/08 08:14 PM
i stay home so that people will not see my loneliness because am shy about it so i go out. what happens? guys say things like, how come you are alone tonight? want someone to keep your company? jump in my car etc. and i feel even more lonely. i guess its the way i walk or something.... i don't like feeling lonely... maybe i should just take a balloon to nowhere.

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Sat 07/05/08 08:16 PM
The only way to overcome that, is to face your fears, get out into the world and meet people.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/05/08 08:16 PM
i stay home so that people will not see my loneliness because am shy about it so i go out. what happens? guys say things like, how come you are alone tonight? want someone to keep your company? jump in my car etc. and i feel even more lonely. i guess its the way i walk or something.... i don't like feeling lonely... maybe i should just take a balloon to nowhere. Its the communists fault

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sat 07/05/08 08:18 PM
Believe it when I say that going out and meeting people won't amount to much. About the only thing it'll do is add to the loneliness. I know this because I've wrestled with it for years now.

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Sat 07/05/08 08:22 PM
Believe it when I say that going out and meeting people won't amount to much. About the only thing it'll do is add to the loneliness. I know this because I've wrestled with it for years now. its a beautiful world. i see so much beauty and good but there is a pain that haunts me on the inside but i hope to feel better again in a few months. i think its going to take me some time. i have been alone with myself for sometime now and its not getting better. . i guess somethings just happen for a good reason.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sat 07/05/08 08:26 PM Edited by robert1652 on Sat 07/05/08 08:26 PM
i stay home so that people will not see my loneliness because am shy about it so i go out. what happens? guys say things like, how come you are alone tonight? want someone to keep your company? jump in my car etc. and i feel even more lonely. i guess its the way i walk or something.... i don't like feeling lonely... maybe i should just take a balloon to nowhere. Unless you walk like Elvis The Pelvis cant say its your walk

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sat 07/05/08 08:27 PM Edited by moofooga on Sat 07/05/08 08:28 PM
Believe it when I say that going out and meeting people won't amount to much. About the only thing it'll do is add to the loneliness. I know this because I've wrestled with it for years now. its a beautiful world. i see so much beauty and good but there is a pain that haunts me on the inside but i hope to feel better again in a few months. i think its going to take me some time. i have been alone with myself for sometime now and its not getting better. . i guess somethings just happen for a good reason. I don't even see the beauty and the good in the world nowadays. All I DO see are the selfishness and the mean-spiritedness of people and the pain they can cause.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sat 07/05/08 08:29 PM


cuppy59 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 17536	Sat 07/05/08 08:30 PM
God Moof...do you have to sound so darn scarey????

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Sat 07/05/08 08:30 PM
I don't even see the beauty and the good in the world nowadays. All I DO see are the selfishness and the mean-spiritedness of people and the pain they can cause. i hear what you say but we have to keep hope in our hearts.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sat 07/05/08 08:31 PM
The happiness emanates from inside being surrounded by negative energies drags every one down so you need to work exhausted spirit once happy inside people surround you with positiveness.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sat 07/05/08 08:31 PM
get some pets, smell some flowers, play at the park, go fishing, play with lil kids, talk to old people.... lots of GOOD things to be found!!! just gotta look real hard sometimes

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sat 07/05/08 08:39 PM Edited by robert1652 on Sat 07/05/08 08:39 PM
get some pets, smell some flowers, play at the park, go fishing, play with lil kids, talk to old people.... lots of GOOD things to be found!!! just gotta look real hard sometimes I agree 1play with lil kids 2 play with lil kids 3play with lil kids and while doing that go to their level and forget this is naughty that is naughty just be a kid with them surround yourself with decent comedy never take the things seriously and see what happens

Gretali Joined Sun 06/01/08 Posts: 66	Sat 07/05/08 08:59 PM
I don't even see the beauty and the good in the world nowadays. All I DO see are the selfishness and the mean-spiritedness of people and the pain they can cause. i hear what you say but we have to keep hope in our hearts. hearing and feeling you both, loud and clear have you tried volunteer work? i don't know what i'd do without the ladies and gents i visit for meals on wheels

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Sat 07/05/08 09:24 PM
hearing and feeling you both, loud and clear have you tried volunteer work? i don't know what i'd do without the ladies and gents i visit for meals on wheels thanks for the suggestion.