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Topic: They are being cheated on
907daydreamer's photo
Sat 07/05/08 07:35 PM
I did and they hated me for it
I would probably still tell the person then it would be up to them what to do with the information


being the messenger is never fun, I don't care what they say.

Are you morally and ethically responsible to tell someone they are being cheated on BEFORE they get married to the cheater?


I would want to know, so I would speak up.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 07/05/08 07:35 PM
Within reason...I don't tell people a lot of things that are tainted of someone's past, I like to give the benefit of the doubt that they will work on it and become a more positive person...that and once I know a secret, no one else knows that secret.

brooke007's photo
Sat 07/05/08 07:36 PM
it depends....

on if they already have kids.....

my first approach would be to confront the peson doing the cheating

Nova86's photo
Sat 07/05/08 07:38 PM
you have to follow your heart...what would you want in that situation?? would this person believe you over the cheating party? you have to do what you think would be best...so it depends, but i would lean on telling them

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