I have a hard time meeting any girls.. I am really shy and have been
hurt before. The girls i do meet i usually end up either getting stuck
as friends (nothing wrong with) and have to listen to them complain
about how their relationship is screwing them and wanting my advice.
I'm just not a 'bar' type person and even online im kinda shy when it
comes to making the first move.

I always end up being friends with everyone too! I guess what you need
to do is try to over come being so shy, if you like someone make sure
they know it. The worse thing that can happen is she can say that she
only wants to be friends. You only live once and if you don't get out
there and meet people you are never going to find that right person.
Good luck in your search.

Hi ClassyJ, just be respectfull and post as much as u like. Most will
befriend u and u might find someone along the way. Also, welcome to the
site. There a bunch of awesome pple here.

ya i have tried that but i don't know if i try to late or what.. i know
that you only have a window of time before a woman places ya as a friend
or lover, but i just like taking things slowly..

HEY Jeff, whats-up man,,,if you go slow here you will find alot of
friends, now for the ladies, thats the million dollar question,lol
But just be you and be real, and be nice,,and everything else just
happens,,
Lay out some jokes in the joke thread, or post somepoems if ya into
that, or just jump in on posts like your running one here... ITS ALL
GOOD DUDE!!!

And share your smiles!!

I agree.
I think people also kind of know what they are after.
The type they would consider a "friend" and the type
they would want to date. Sometimes it takes you by
surprise. I have dated someone before and when I introduced
him to my best friend said "not really my type huh?"
Just be yourself and do not try so hard, relax and have fun
and enjoy making friends.

Just be yourself bro. The way to a womans heart(or so I've been told)is
by your heart. And woman are the best at seeing behind peoples bull****.
Woman's intuition. Ain't that right ladies??

respect others always.. have fun.. there are alot of neat and
interesting people here @ jsh.. like said before.. the more involved you
are the more involved they will be you. come on in.

I have to agree, just be yourself, be real, and know you are very
important, and don't settle for less than what you deserve.. (and we all
deserve the best)

listen classy, if they can see you for who you really are
then their lost, you will find someone who can apreciate you and they
will be sorry... just be yourself..

As a "shy guy" myself, guy to guy we all know there are guys out there
that can walk up to a woman a say along the lines of 'you sure are an
ugly b****, have her laughing and walk out the door with her before the
night is over, we other guys just have to put ourselves out there, be
prepared to be rejected, pick up and go again. There are shy gals out
there as well as guys, we ain't alone in that.
Don't think about pick up lines, just say what you think or feel when
you see someone you want to talk to.
Also, don't be afraid to approach someone you find really attractive,
just do it with self assurance, don't stumble with words, be relaxed.
MAybe some slightly funny comment in general, not too much, if you get a
positive response, talk a little more, maybe you and she will become
friends, close friends, maybe like you but not physically but may know
your true love and introduce you to her.
Also if you go to a bar, just be friendly with everyone, yeah, I know,
there's plenty of assholes in them places (been one m,yself a time or
two)and their buddies will find them cute or funny but not everyone
there will agree, be nice to everyone, you will probably get some life
long friends in the process.

hey classy i'm a shy guy to in person' i don't approach women much for
fear of rejection, but you have to learn to be confident in yourself
women love that in a man and just be yourself.

i dont understand how u could feel rejected romeo u are one fine man.
I agree though it takes time and self confadance.

thank you hotgigles' but in person women act like they don't see me i
don't get that but it's cool i'm learing thing's as i go.

it is cuz they are intemadated. afraid what they will find out about u

yea some people think i'm a player or a cheater, i never did it i'm
totally a honest good guy.

and u know when u fine that specail someone they will know too

that's right hotgigle's

u know it isn't that what we are all waiting for

sop true hogigles' you will find the right women for you classy or she
will find you buddy ok.