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Topic: Telling your partner to lose weight
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/05/08 06:39 AM
If needed, would you tell your partner to lose weight?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 07/05/08 06:41 AM
No

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Sat 07/05/08 06:42 AM
probably

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sat 07/05/08 06:42 AM
no because I take people as they come.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 07/05/08 06:42 AM
i wouldnt tell them that.. but if they told me in a nice way, then i would try, if they said it in another way to hurt my feelings, then i would tell them where to go.... i did have a old bf along time ago that said it in a nice way and i did loose a few pounds not for him but for me...

LIJOMA Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 2591	Sat 07/05/08 06:42 AM
No

jnjsmomma Joined Mon 02/11/08 Posts: 249	Sat 07/05/08 06:42 AM
in a not so obvious way, yeah

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Sat 07/05/08 06:43 AM
no way...unless it affected their health, and then not so much as tell them...but help them. I have lost 140 lbs over the past 18 months and realize how tough it is to lose, but also know the effects it can have on your health, can make breathing difficult, effect the heart, cause diabetes.....save it for the doc to tell them...but of course aid them in their uphill battle

Topsykretts Joined Wed 05/14/08 Posts: 4807	Sat 07/05/08 06:51 AM
If loosening weight would do him good, I might suggest it otherwise, no matter how he looks like (weight for that matter), it's all good to me.

hotcobranut Joined Thu 11/29/07 Posts: 8	Sat 07/05/08 06:52 AM
Iam with mskim i went from 360 down to 260 it is my job to know better

somewhatshy2 Joined Sat 03/29/08 Posts: 1758	Sat 07/05/08 06:53 AM
being an overweight person myself, it all depends on how they tell you...I have lost approx 20 lbs in the past month, but I did it for me, not for someone else...that is always a touchy subject with people.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/05/08 06:55 AM
in a not so obvious way, yeah good answer

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Sat 07/05/08 06:56 AM
no, I take people the way that they are. I dont like people telling me to loose weight, because they never do it nicely.

RJR1 Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 548	Sat 07/05/08 06:56 AM
For health reasons or if he wants to, I would help him. Otherwise I'd leave it alone. Congrats, MisKim, I know how hard it is. I'm trying to lose again after all these surgeries.

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Sat 07/05/08 06:58 AM
in a not so obvious way, yeah good answer i agree- good answer people know they need to lose weight and if they are happy with their weight or not kind of like smoking

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Sat 07/05/08 07:01 AM
I would say something like...lets try and walk everynight together.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/05/08 07:04 AM
I would say something like...lets try and walk everynight together. good idea

BEGME Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 3	Sat 07/05/08 07:21 AM Edited by BEGME on Sat 07/05/08 07:29 AM
Cold Feet.... You talk and talk to a guy ....4 months...make plans to meet ...buy flight tickets, ...hotel....and one week before the trip to an island..he tells you he is going to give his ex wife a second chance................because she is fat and needs his help????

BEGME Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 3	Sat 07/05/08 07:22 AM
It is not about the weight...it is about a healthier life style, wich will help both of them....to live happier...

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Sat 07/05/08 07:22 AM
If needed, would you tell your partner to lose weight? They will lose weight and eventually you will lose them . .