Never surrender and stop . Tomorrow always looks better .

Never surrender and stop . Tomorrow always looks better .

many times I've wanted to give up, but I keep hanging in there...........just hoping!

Quit trying so hard!!! And xnay on all the talk of the x~~~

Just chaulk it up as someone that didnt really want to get to know you, it happens to me all of the time, I just go on and dont worry about it. It is their loss not mine, is how I look at it.

Don't give them the long version of your story. Say you would rather talk about something else that you will talk about it later.

Tell us something fun about your life. What do you have going for you? What music are you into? Do you have any funny dating stories? What happened today to you? Are you planning a vacation anywhere? What things in the news interest you? (avoid politics) You need to keep it positive or else they will not want to talk to you. You need to have confidence without being arrogant.

Again always keep it honest and real. That said, limit the negative things you talk about. IF something negative is sad then talk about it in a sentence and move on.

I have a lot of fun thing's to do i go fishing for #1 cycling all over i been to differnt state's on my bike and still have fun.

But it's hard out there because some make it so bad for us good people so when we meet some one that person asume's we are going to hurt them ect.

And yes i do get tired of the same old story's when they say im interested fine that's cool and i do take my time with it and i even sat there and spoke to them as a person with out being rude or talk trash on the phone i show respect.

But maybe people are not used to it and run or maybe some are to afraied to even try but again why go that far in to wanting to get to know some one then drop them with out any reason?

Or why is that they can go as far in to talking and getting along having fun but later they decide to up and leave with out a trace or sit there and lie and say there ready for a long tearm relationship on there profile but tell you a differnt story that there not ready for one do that make any sense?

I mean what is the reason why they go on to a site and state what there looking for but when you are getting to know them they are a totaly differnt from what they stated in there profile.

Is it for attention or is it because there loney or is it do to that maybe they want a free meal and whatever and go to the next one who know's.

Not that iam saying all people do this but how can any one realy get to know some one if there not willing to give that other a chance.

I learn so much being single in thease three years i am single because i choose to be not that i dont want any one but also tired of all the head game's ect that people play.

But at times i figure ok give up because its a feeling we all have in side of us and that is only human to feel that.

But i do believe that perhaps one day that women will find me but i dont ask for it i dont look for it i let it happend on it's own.

But i can say this iam real and iam honest, and very understanding and i do know who iam and if a person cant asept me for who iam then it's there tuff luck iam not here to please any one or act perfect because iam not perfect nor want to be.

but ty all .

Your friend mike