well ok my emmediate family is of four my mom and dad and older bro and me....... the thing is we do have family and aww but whats the use of it...seriouslly.......they stopped talking oto us much because we are far i just recentlly found out one of my girl cousins got married and everyone else got invited except our familly. I found out throught my space....... thru one of my other cousinns page whom did get invited.....should i be hurt.?.........we dont really talk too the family much..seems they jsut stoppped inviting us too gatherings now. and then theres another person my fav cousin just got a divorce and is turning into a ass........i feel at same time as i do feel cared for i feel like everything is dissapearing......sight oh well......... atleast i have my puppy......right......and my besties even dought there not near right now especially the one near me at school........i lvoe them....all dought sometimes i wished everything could be different......sometimes i feel like going tooo a totally diff palce and starting over but iam in school.........and cant get a job......at the time.......

thanks........ for reading my post

ill have to read this again

ok sure

As a friend told me once, family id very important. In the end that's all we really have. I wish you could have been invited to the wedding. I would be upset as well.

what???

just read it again...

ok, I'll try

Don't worry about it Pooh. As long as you have a family that loves you and you love them, then I wouldn't worry about the rest.

I've got family members that I don't speak to, and it's not because I don't love them, it's just because I don't care to associate myself with them because they are a bad influence on my life.

So enjoy the family you have because I'm sure you are loved by them very much.

i know its like ok her page is public shes not on my page so i clicked on it thru my other cousins page she had a pict that had all my cosuins at bottom said eve4ryone i wanted here are here all my lovelly cousins........ i was like upset when i saw it

its just upsetting remembering everything.....memories

Yeah I know. But try to focus on what you have now, and treasure the memories of the past.

I feel for you hun...there are only 5 in my immediate family.
Around this time last year, we had to put my mom in a home because she has Alzheimer's so bad, she doesn't know who ANY of us are any more. My father basically told me not to call him anymore. My sister won't talk to me, and hasn't in over 10 years cuz she thinks I have rascist feelings towards her husband and son(They're not white, like I care. The funny AND sad part is, I like her husband wayyyy more than I liked her).
As for my brother, the last time I ever heard from him, he was living in the interior of B.C. and that was at least 8 years ago.
Thank God for friends, both on-line and off.

Btw..Friends are God's way of apologizing for the family you got

i know ha....... thank god i have most of my friends on here and my space......sometimes better talkign too online friends then family hahha

Fascinating

Family is as family does.

my father's famil;y is the same way and you know what..no loss.love the ones ya got poohbear and hang in there.

my family quit talking to us after my grandparented passed on, and I dont sweat it at all. It is their loss not mine. So keep the memories and dont let the rest bother you.