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itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Wed 07/02/08 10:30 PM
its a good idea to have a main pic with you and your child?

DrX Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1539	Wed 07/02/08 10:31 PM
no, keep kids away from this site

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Wed 07/02/08 10:32 PM
no

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Wed 07/02/08 10:32 PM
i got pics of my son on my profile.. hes adorable...theres no harm in that.. BUT i dont use the pic of my teenie boppin daughter

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 07/02/08 10:33 PM
its a good idea to have a main pic with you and your child? I dont really like it when people do that. No offense to anyone.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Wed 07/02/08 10:33 PM
its a good idea to have a main pic with you and your child? no harm i think, but there are creeps out there. jmo

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Wed 07/02/08 10:34 PM
i have one pic of my son and I but not as a main pic and not all the time i keep it up

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Wed 07/02/08 10:36 PM
i have one pic of my son and I but not as a main pic and not all the time i keep it up no worries!! like i said i dont see the big deal.!!its part of who you are.!!!

HUEY636 Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 72	Wed 07/02/08 10:42 PM
Yes,being real never hurts.A real person is always more than self.

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Wed 07/02/08 10:48 PM
I like seeing people with their kids in pics. It shows a little more about them. Just need to be careful with the rest of the information in your profile. Wouldn't want give any information that could lead some sick bas***d to your kids.

toussan1221 Joined Wed 05/28/08 Posts: 11	Wed 07/02/08 10:57 PM
No, we want to have a grown up relationship first. It says you're already competing for attention, when it's a different attention. I think a lot of us on these sites have busy lives and we're looking for something. Let's get one person to fit into our life before making family. On the other hand a mother's first priority is usually her child. Nothing wrong with that if you can accept HER CHILD WILL ALWAYS COME BEFORE YOUR RELATIONSHIP! It's sad that the dynamic of meet/mate/procreate/raise a family/have grandkids/retire happy is subjugated to some of that plus/divorce/focus on the kids/try to meet someone,but are too focused on the kids/so you do it alone because you don't think anyone else could have their best interests in mind/the kids grow up and move out and/who is holding your hand? So I say just put just yourself out there. Find someone you'll love after the kids move out. The person true to you heart will be good for them too. And you'll be not waiting to be happy later. Good luck!

toussan1221 Joined Wed 05/28/08 Posts: 11	Wed 07/02/08 10:58 PM
No, we want to have a grown up relationship first. It says you're already competing for attention, when it's a different attention. I think a lot of us on these sites have busy lives and we're looking for something. Let's get one person to fit into our life before making family. On the other hand a mother's first priority is usually her child. Nothing wrong with that if you can accept HER CHILD WILL ALWAYS COME BEFORE YOUR RELATIONSHIP! It's sad that the dynamic of meet/mate/procreate/raise a family/have grandkids/retire happy is subjugated to some of that plus/divorce/focus on the kids/try to meet someone,but are too focused on the kids/so you do it alone because you don't think anyone else could have their best interests in mind/the kids grow up and move out and/who is holding your hand? So I say just put just yourself out there. Find someone you'll love after the kids move out. The person true to you heart will be good for them too. And you'll be not waiting to be happy later. Good luck!

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Wed 07/02/08 11:00 PM
No I don't think that is a good think to do.

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Wed 07/02/08 11:04 PM
No. Kids shouldn't be brought around people you are not serious with anyways, it F$#@s with their mind too, in addition to the other replies of "No" followed by their advice that is already left for you.