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so i just figured out i was 4 months pregnant and in the process of telling my ex he informs me that he is dating this girl and im freaking out and i still care for him and its making me sick to think about it and im just really needing some advice ...
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you just figured out after 4 months
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Don't count on your ex... YOU decide what it is you want to do... can you handle being a single parent? if not there are many options, because if that was his response, he surely isn't interested
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wow, thats rough. sorry that happened to you.
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well i have had suspision but thought it was just my cycle being out of wack but come to find out ... my everything is out of wack and im pregnant
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Don't count on your ex... YOU decide what it is you want to do... can you handle being a single parent? if not there are many options, because if that was his response, he surely isn't interested Agreed, and I am sorry that has happened to you. Try to be a little more careful with sex. Even though you are just boyfriend and girlfriend or whatever the arrangements may be.... Keep in mind you are not married, so there is nothing really keeping you bound to each other. At least not in a legal sense. |
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well..are you close with your family??
i would talk to my parents or other family members and tell them. figure out a plan.. for you and the baby  |
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Don't count on your ex... YOU decide what it is you want to do... can you handle being a single parent? if not there are many options, because if that was his response, he surely isn't interested Agreed, and I am sorry that has happened to you. Try to be a little more careful with sex. Even though you are just boyfriend and girlfriend or whatever the arrangements may be.... Keep in mind you are not married, so there is nothing really keeping you bound to each other. At least not in a legal sense. took words right out of my mouth |
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CAll UP HIS MOM!!!
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yeah,,,,,let her know she gonna be a grand maw
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Don't count on your ex... YOU decide what it is you want to do... can you handle being a single parent? if not there are many options, because if that was his response, he surely isn't interested Agreed, and I am sorry that has happened to you. Try to be a little more careful with sex. Even though you are just boyfriend and girlfriend or whatever the arrangements may be.... Keep in mind you are not married, so there is nothing really keeping you bound to each other. At least not in a legal sense. |
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Edited by
johncarl
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Fri 06/27/08 10:28 PM
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been on the other side of that 19 years ago.i had to move on i did not like it i moved 2243 miles away to start new life and did and now i have a new x and a 7 year old witch i love to death and am a single parent it is all good to be a single parent i love it and i wish i had more children you dont need him like i dont need her if their is no love it is not good for the child in my eyes if you can be friends it is best.just chill and thing long and hard you are about to have one of the best things happen to you soon.children are a gift.smile hold your head up.
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you just figured out after 4 months 
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Edited by
johncarl
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Fri 06/27/08 10:29 PM
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Edited by
kerbear73
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Fri 06/27/08 10:28 PM
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Tell him that it is a early christmas present and he can pay you back in monthly payments till you child is 18.
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Edited by
Random_Stranger
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Fri 06/27/08 10:29 PM
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Don't count on your ex... YOU decide what it is you want to do... can you handle being a single parent? if not there are many options, because if that was his response, he surely isn't interested Agreed, and I am sorry that has happened to you. Try to be a little more careful with sex. Even though you are just boyfriend and girlfriend or whatever the arrangements may be.... Keep in mind you are not married, so there is nothing really keeping you bound to each other. At least not in a legal sense. Well yes, in that sense, but relationship wise..... LOL@ Call his mom!  That is comical, but effective!
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tell him you want a abortion and keep the money
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Don't forget about yourself. You have the strength in you. You may go through some difficult times ahead. Weather the storm. You have an unbelieveable prize in you. Don't lose sight of that. Cherish and embrace that. No matter the crap you go through along the way, stay strong. You might be suprise at what you're capeable of. Stay true to yourself. Be brutally honest with yourself. You know the difference between right and wrong. Do the right thing. You'll know it. If someday you have a bad day and fail at something, remember, that's what people do. We make mistakes. It's ok. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back to who you are. I have faith in you. I know you have it as well. You'll do it.
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I hope I did'nt upset anyone with rhat I posted.
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Isn't JSH such a great place to get advice?
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