You need your time to recharge. And I agree, dont let him walk over you.

Hear me out sweetie,,you know I love ya ((((((Lily)))

As hard as it is, I think you need to step outta the situation a tad.

The question I always asked myself was "what's good for my child"

The answer was always,,,the "lesson"

So, stick to the agreed visitation. Don't cover his weekends anymore. And don't ask him to take days that aren't his.

If he messes up,,then what lesson is your daughter learning?

I'm thinking,,who she can count on

Wouldn't it be GREAT if it was both of you

no, you keep hoping he'll "get it"

But I gotta ask,,how many times have you been burned?

keep track of your days.......support is determined by the amount of time each parent has with a child.........when they boost his payments...he'll be beggin for more time......