Topic: I just realized how many guys
buttons's photo
Fri 06/27/08 09:59 AM
i see it too... yes it does come out on here.. i guess its just a little shocking perhaps since mostly women do it that ive seen... ya learn something everyday i guess.... angel does have a point and it does go with this thread i beleive.. as i said above.... really no one should do this man or woman.. jmo

hikerchick's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:00 AM
Who are you?


almost the same; except my degree is in accounting and my expertise is in international tax; I am not bi-sexual, and I don't have a partner.

Other than that, it's a mutual match.

wiley's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:00 AM

woman are such funny but complex creatures, but man o man i love them.!!!:wink: drinker drinker drinker drinker


Well....if it takes me twenty minutes to tie a shoe can I tell people I'm complicated? :tongue:

(That was purely a hypothetical if anybody thinks it actually takes me twenty minutes to tie a shoe. I'm pretty sure I can do it in ten.)

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Fri 06/27/08 10:01 AM
some men are women haters, a few men on here have been rude to me and ive never spoke to them in my life. since were not talking about women theres no need to comment on that side of things.

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Fri 06/27/08 10:02 AM
Edited by angelindarkness on Fri 06/27/08 10:03 AM




Gee, from the other side of the coin, I also wonder how many women just don't like men; or are so bitter from past hurts/harm done to them by men that it embitters them towards most of the male species.

For example, when some women act like b!tches (when many men love anyway) and do not feel like being nice, they blame it on men.

If they do not feel like being lady-like, they blame it on "women's liberation"/"feminism" and the need to appear and act masculine in order to achieve the same things in life men have. They want to compete with men on men's terms, when women are unique in and of themselves.

They are afraid of leaning on, depending on, becoming emotionally and even a tad physically vulnerable with a man, for fear of being labeled "a doormat", "weak", "unliberated", "old-fashioned", overly dependent/co-dependent, or a "victim".

I'm happy, content, fulfilled, and proud to be an "old-fashioned girl", despite being a man-loving feminist.

Some of the things I see gals writing about men just implies, to me, a deep-seated dislike of the entire gender.

So to you gals who are writing that stuff, know that men and bi women are noticing. I can't speak for them or for other bi women, but I would never date a gal who does not like men.

are you a male using a female avatar? Just curious.

That's funny. No. I am a college educated, bisexual 3rd wave feminist female with a professional degree. An expert in human behavior; someone who has had both extensive experience as both a married and a single woman in today's day and age. Someone who has provided cpunseling and psychotherapy to men, women, couples, and children and who has a fond interest in other cultures, nature, science, and the arts. A woman at the peak of her life who owns her own home, car, and is raising her child on her own. A sensual female with a partner she loves and who loves her, in addition to friends of the most loyal variety. That is who I am.

Who are you?
I only asked because most of your replies usually sound like the male point of view.



That's what all my friends say, too. I am an assertive woman. Independent, liberated, feminist, and fully embracing the positive qualities of my female sexuality and gender. I tend to think like a man when it comes to dating and living my life. At the same time, that's why I enjoy giving up control to my partner in the bedroom and anywhere else I see fit. It takes a very special, calm, self-confident, and disciplined male to win my heart and mind as a partner.

I also think of both sides, what men and what women need....

Hope that answers your question.

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Fri 06/27/08 10:03 AM

Who are you?


almost the same; except my degree is in accounting and my expertise is in international tax; I am not bi-sexual, and I don't have a partner.

Other than that, it's a mutual match.

flowerforyou

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Fri 06/27/08 10:04 AM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Fri 06/27/08 10:07 AM





Gee, from the other side of the coin, I also wonder how many women just don't like men; or are so bitter from past hurts/harm done to them by men that it embitters them towards most of the male species.

For example, when some women act like b!tches (when many men love anyway) and do not feel like being nice, they blame it on men.

If they do not feel like being lady-like, they blame it on "women's liberation"/"feminism" and the need to appear and act masculine in order to achieve the same things in life men have. They want to compete with men on men's terms, when women are unique in and of themselves.

They are afraid of leaning on, depending on, becoming emotionally and even a tad physically vulnerable with a man, for fear of being labeled "a doormat", "weak", "unliberated", "old-fashioned", overly dependent/co-dependent, or a "victim".

I'm happy, content, fulfilled, and proud to be an "old-fashioned girl", despite being a man-loving feminist.

Some of the things I see gals writing about men just implies, to me, a deep-seated dislike of the entire gender.

So to you gals who are writing that stuff, know that men and bi women are noticing. I can't speak for them or for other bi women, but I would never date a gal who does not like men.

are you a male using a female avatar? Just curious.

That's funny. No. I am a college educated, bisexual 3rd wave feminist female with a professional degree. An expert in human behavior; someone who has had both extensive experience as both a married and a single woman in today's day and age. Someone who has provided cpunseling and psychotherapy to men, women, couples, and children and who has a fond interest in other cultures, nature, science, and the arts. A woman at the peak of her life who owns her own home, car, and is raising her child on her own. A sensual female with a partner she loves and who loves her, in addition to friends of the most loyal variety. That is who I am.

Who are you?
I only asked because most of your replies usually sound like the male point of view.



That's what all my friends say, too. I am an assertive woman. Independent, liberated, feminist, and fully embracing the positive qualities of my female sexuality and gender. I tend to think like a man when it comes to dating and living my life. At the same time, that's why I enjoy giving up control to my partner in the bedroom and anywhere else I see fit. It takes a very special, calm, self-confident, and disciplined male to win my heart and mind as a partner.

I also think of both sides, what men and what women need....

Hope that answers your question.

Are you taking applications?

ps....when it comes to bedrooms i do like to drive....*cruise control*
pss....i was doing fine until i read 'disciplined' male

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Fri 06/27/08 10:07 AM






Gee, from the other side of the coin, I also wonder how many women just don't like men; or are so bitter from past hurts/harm done to them by men that it embitters them towards most of the male species.

For example, when some women act like b!tches (when many men love anyway) and do not feel like being nice, they blame it on men.

If they do not feel like being lady-like, they blame it on "women's liberation"/"feminism" and the need to appear and act masculine in order to achieve the same things in life men have. They want to compete with men on men's terms, when women are unique in and of themselves.

They are afraid of leaning on, depending on, becoming emotionally and even a tad physically vulnerable with a man, for fear of being labeled "a doormat", "weak", "unliberated", "old-fashioned", overly dependent/co-dependent, or a "victim".

I'm happy, content, fulfilled, and proud to be an "old-fashioned girl", despite being a man-loving feminist.

Some of the things I see gals writing about men just implies, to me, a deep-seated dislike of the entire gender.

So to you gals who are writing that stuff, know that men and bi women are noticing. I can't speak for them or for other bi women, but I would never date a gal who does not like men.

are you a male using a female avatar? Just curious.

That's funny. No. I am a college educated, bisexual 3rd wave feminist female with a professional degree. An expert in human behavior; someone who has had both extensive experience as both a married and a single woman in today's day and age. Someone who has provided cpunseling and psychotherapy to men, women, couples, and children and who has a fond interest in other cultures, nature, science, and the arts. A woman at the peak of her life who owns her own home, car, and is raising her child on her own. A sensual female with a partner she loves and who loves her, in addition to friends of the most loyal variety. That is who I am.

Who are you?
I only asked because most of your replies usually sound like the male point of view.



That's what all my friends say, too. I am an assertive woman. Independent, liberated, feminist, and fully embracing the positive qualities of my female sexuality and gender. I tend to think like a man when it comes to dating and living my life. At the same time, that's why I enjoy giving up control to my partner in the bedroom and anywhere else I see fit. It takes a very special, calm, self-confident, and disciplined male to win my heart and mind as a partner.

I also think of both sides, what men and what women need....

Hope that answers your question.

Are you taking applications?

Nope. flowerforyou I'm taken.

Mikecom21hotmaiL :heart: and I will be moving in together as soon as the painting in the apartment is done and the packing is finished. We are looking towards marriage in the coming year if all goes as planned.

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Fri 06/27/08 10:08 AM


ps....when it comes to bedrooms i do like to drive....*cruise control*

I know quite a few women that appreciate that in a man. bigsmile flowerforyou

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Fri 06/27/08 10:08 AM
Edited by angelindarkness on Fri 06/27/08 10:09 AM
duplicate

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Fri 06/27/08 10:09 AM

pss....i was doing fine until i read 'disciplined' male

That just means he is in control of himself. :wink:

seahawks's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:09 AM
hey u came twice laugh laugh laugh

buttons's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:09 AM
Edited by buttons on Fri 06/27/08 10:11 AM
well i dont see it as a gender or sexual preference thing at all... i see it as a human being within and just putting yourself in one others shoes to try to understand them and show them consideration...afterall no 2 people are the same... and we all dont think alike.. but to show the effort to learn one another is the key.. male or female..also its people who are doing that.. that are unhappy with theirselves

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:09 AM







Gee, from the other side of the coin, I also wonder how many women just don't like men; or are so bitter from past hurts/harm done to them by men that it embitters them towards most of the male species.

For example, when some women act like b!tches (when many men love anyway) and do not feel like being nice, they blame it on men.

If they do not feel like being lady-like, they blame it on "women's liberation"/"feminism" and the need to appear and act masculine in order to achieve the same things in life men have. They want to compete with men on men's terms, when women are unique in and of themselves.

They are afraid of leaning on, depending on, becoming emotionally and even a tad physically vulnerable with a man, for fear of being labeled "a doormat", "weak", "unliberated", "old-fashioned", overly dependent/co-dependent, or a "victim".

I'm happy, content, fulfilled, and proud to be an "old-fashioned girl", despite being a man-loving feminist.

Some of the things I see gals writing about men just implies, to me, a deep-seated dislike of the entire gender.

So to you gals who are writing that stuff, know that men and bi women are noticing. I can't speak for them or for other bi women, but I would never date a gal who does not like men.

are you a male using a female avatar? Just curious.

That's funny. No. I am a college educated, bisexual 3rd wave feminist female with a professional degree. An expert in human behavior; someone who has had both extensive experience as both a married and a single woman in today's day and age. Someone who has provided cpunseling and psychotherapy to men, women, couples, and children and who has a fond interest in other cultures, nature, science, and the arts. A woman at the peak of her life who owns her own home, car, and is raising her child on her own. A sensual female with a partner she loves and who loves her, in addition to friends of the most loyal variety. That is who I am.

Who are you?
I only asked because most of your replies usually sound like the male point of view.



That's what all my friends say, too. I am an assertive woman. Independent, liberated, feminist, and fully embracing the positive qualities of my female sexuality and gender. I tend to think like a man when it comes to dating and living my life. At the same time, that's why I enjoy giving up control to my partner in the bedroom and anywhere else I see fit. It takes a very special, calm, self-confident, and disciplined male to win my heart and mind as a partner.

I also think of both sides, what men and what women need....

Hope that answers your question.

Are you taking applications?

Nope. flowerforyou I'm taken.

Mikecom21hotmaiL :heart: and I will be moving in together as soon as the painting in the apartment is done and the packing is finished. We are looking towards marriage in the coming year if all goes as planned.

Congrats....and you can burn your bra in the bedroom for him....guys like that kinda thing....

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Fri 06/27/08 10:11 AM

hey u came twice laugh laugh laugh

Well lookie there! Multiply orgasmic today. :tongue:

Toddo73's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:12 AM
I adore all you women.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Fri 06/27/08 10:12 AM

Congrats....and you can burn your bra in the bedroom for him....guys like that kinda thing....

laugh laugh laugh Oh I won't be doing that. I'm not THAT kind of feminist. I'm 3rd wave.

He can cut the bra off with a sharp knife if it pleases him, though. :tongue: :tongue: devil blushing :tongue:

seahawks's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:13 AM


hey u came twice laugh laugh laugh

Well lookie there! Multiply orgasmic today. :tongue:
laugh :tongue: flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:14 AM
offtopic offtopic

hey u came twice laugh laugh laugh
offtopic offtopic :laughing: :laughing:

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 06/27/08 10:14 AM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Fri 06/27/08 10:16 AM


Congrats....and you can burn your bra in the bedroom for him....guys like that kinda thing....

laugh laugh laugh Oh I won't be doing that. I'm not THAT kind of feminist. I'm 3rd wave.

He can cut the bra off with a sharp knife if it pleases him, though. :tongue: :tongue: devil blushing :tongue:


if you're third wave and there are more out there, I'm swimming....or surfing....Hang Ten shades

*remember to bring sharp 'bra off' knife*