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Topic: Should I quit this site?
kkKen's photo
Wed 06/25/08 04:25 AM
hell no.Why give it up to suit her?Don't let anyone run YOUR life.Just give the friends you've made the heads up and keep on goindrinker drinker drinker

OrangeCat's photo
Wed 06/25/08 04:26 AM
na dont let her run ya off.

baroosie's photo
Wed 06/25/08 04:27 AM
Change your profile pic to someone pretty....like ME! devil

beachbum069's photo
Wed 06/25/08 04:31 AM


Should you quit the site?

noway No, you like it here and you've found friends. You're gonna need them. Especially now.

Someone should start a post to examine why (some(sic)) women who apparently didn't appreciate the man they had and go to extreme lengths to destroy him as he tries, first to survive the loss after she either dumped him for the latest flash, seeker of a$$, or stack of cash that came sniffing!

Yes, I am another of those Damn good men that busted chops, remained faithful, endured, believed (spell that deluded myself) that she was where she said she was until the bitter end. When finally it was over I tried to make my way back to sanity and self tolerance.

Suddenly I was getting attention and met a nice woman or two who would suddenly change or simply disappear, not returning calls. Maybe I was a %#&@, I thought, sinking lower into despair. Eventually found out she was reading my email, telephone voicemail, and IMs, telling these women God only knows what! Why!? She didn't want me, and would only call me herself teasing a wishful fool.

That's not even the half of it and I never put that out there before but I'm gonna stop there, this is not about me.

Pal, you stay right here where you can talk, laugh, share, cry, and everything else with people who will talk, laugh, share, cry right along with you.

BUT, get a random password generator and change every single password to something that has nothing to do with you. Close any account that uses personal information, ie. birthday, favorite pet, etc to validate. And as challenging as it's gonna be look forward, not back!

I said all that to say
NO, Don't leave a place that's good for you because of someone that's been bad for you!noway
FYI men do the same crap.

We even do stupider stuff too. We are evil bastards.

awolf1010's photo
Wed 06/25/08 04:36 AM
ok... first you need to accept that you are powerless over what she does. you cannot control the actions of others.
with this, remember this little phrase "Do what you need to do"
everytime the ex does something to annoy you just tell her this. she will move on once she sees your not falling for her crap.

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Wed 06/25/08 04:45 AM

IM not sure if many of you know but I ended an 11 yr relationship about a month ago..its posted under relationships. She was cheating again.. Well tonight I found out by her (she called) that shes been reading my posts on here. She even has somehow read my emails and knows who I talk to . I imagine it wont be long before she starts posting but the point is I dont need the problems. I have met some really great people here and have received some great advice in a short time. Should I just stop posting? I have seen what she can do in the past and I also know that it wont be long before some of my friends start getting email from her. I dont want any of you caught up in this web. What should I do? Oh and by the way.. Im sure shes going to read this so be careful what you say.


use a blue box change your user name and even your location.

no photo
Wed 06/25/08 02:20 PM

IM not sure if many of you know but I ended an 11 yr relationship about a month ago..its posted under relationships. She was cheating again.. Well tonight I found out by her (she called) that shes been reading my posts on here. She even has somehow read my emails and knows who I talk to . I imagine it wont be long before she starts posting but the point is I dont need the problems. I have met some really great people here and have received some great advice in a short time. Should I just stop posting? I have seen what she can do in the past and I also know that it wont be long before some of my friends start getting email from her. I dont want any of you caught up in this web. What should I do? Oh and by the way.. Im sure shes going to read this so be careful what you say.


chnage your password, she sounds like a freak !!!

lifestooshort6's photo
Wed 06/25/08 02:28 PM

hell no.Why give it up to suit her?Don't let anyone run YOUR life.Just give the friends you've made the heads up and keep on goindrinker drinker drinker


exactlyflowerforyou

we're here for you and your friends should have your back on this one!happy


shaung35's photo
Wed 06/25/08 02:30 PM
Quitters never win...drinker

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