Topic: Ok ladies lets hear it
rzepkow1's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:01 AM
It is all in how it is presented/said.

Dipomacy and tact and compassion go a long way...and are usually much appreciated!:smile:

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Tue 06/24/08 06:02 AM


honestly... i find it quite strange anyway that she asked...laugh laugh i could see a gal ask another gal in the office that she is good friends with... or her best friend or partner maybe her kids...but to go to work and ask guys if they like it to me is strangelaugh laugh


She's my secretary Oops I mean Plant Office Administrator of 7 years


LOVE YOUR PC damage control, Dude!! I had no problem being called a secretary.
The above does make me wonder. She has a point I missed!!! I would NEVER have asked an office mate, male, if they liked my new "do", unless I was looking for attention from HIM. She may have a little crushy on you!!!!! laugh laugh laugh

buttons's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:03 AM
that was my next question.... is she married?laugh

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Tue 06/24/08 06:03 AM
agreed




honestly... i find it quite strange anyway that she asked...laugh laugh i could see a gal ask another gal in the office that she is good friends with... or her best friend or partner maybe her kids...but to go to work and ask guys if they like it to me is strangelaugh laugh


She's my secretary Oops I mean Plant Office Administrator of 7 years


LOVE YOUR PC damage control, Dude!! I had no problem being called a secretary.
The above does make me wonder. She has a point I missed!!! I would NEVER have asked an office mate, male, if they liked my new "do", unless I was looking for attention from HIM. She may have a little crushy on you!!!!! laugh laugh laugh

Jill298's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:04 AM
lol alot of people seek their boss's approval and you just shot her down. That's why she's pissedlaugh

buttons's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:06 AM

lol alot of people seek their boss's approval and you just shot her down. That's why she's pissedlaugh
my point is....... its her boss..... she is not there to be judged by her looks but by her work....drinker

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:07 AM

that was my next question.... is she married?laugh


woe ladies laugh laugh laugh yes she is married and no nothing going on here beyond work. I have already patched it up. I told her I was just so used to her long hair that being cut short took me by surprise and now that I look at it.....it looks like a damn chia pet experiment gone bad!

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:08 AM
No I told her now that I'm looking at it, it looks very nice :smile:

rzepkow1's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:09 AM


that was my next question.... is she married?laugh


woe ladies laugh laugh laugh yes she is married and no nothing going on here beyond work. I have already patched it up. I told her I was just so used to her long hair that being cut short took me by surprise and now that I look at it.....it looks like a damn chia pet experiment gone bad!


Wow, and that patched things up?laugh

Jill298's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:09 AM

No I told her now that I'm looking at it, it looks very nice :smile:
very nice

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:10 AM



that was my next question.... is she married?laugh


woe ladies laugh laugh laugh yes she is married and no nothing going on here beyond work. I have already patched it up. I told her I was just so used to her long hair that being cut short took me by surprise and now that I look at it.....it looks like a damn chia pet experiment gone bad!


Wow, and that patched things up?laugh

laugh laugh

Jill298's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:10 AM


lol alot of people seek their boss's approval and you just shot her down. That's why she's pissedlaugh
my point is....... its her boss..... she is not there to be judged by her looks but by her work....drinker
I agree. But often times people, especially women, seek the approval of their boss's for various reasons. Not because she has a crush on him or anything. Maybe she just respects his opinion. Who knows without asking her... flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:11 AM
lol I will add that I am not one of those people that would ask my boss is he liked my "do"laugh

buttons's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:13 AM
laugh laugh she got what she wanted now hes gazing at herlaugh laugh

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:15 AM



lol alot of people seek their boss's approval and you just shot her down. That's why she's pissedlaugh
my point is....... its her boss..... she is not there to be judged by her looks but by her work....drinker
I agree. But often times people, especially women, seek the approval of their boss's for various reasons. Not because she has a crush on him or anything. Maybe she just respects his opinion. Who knows without asking her... flowerforyou


Actually I am proud to say that I am very close to all of my employees but especially my 2 secretaries. We get along great and I asked their opinions of things all the time.

buttons's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:15 AM

No I told her now that I'm looking at it, it looks very nice :smile:
the longer and longer i stare at you im beginning to love your beautiful hairlaugh laugh laugh

buttons's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:16 AM
tomorrow go in and first thing when you see her.... say... oh my your hair looks lovely todaylaugh

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:19 AM

tomorrow go in and first thing when you see her.... say... oh my your hair looks lovely todaylaugh


hahahaha ok buttons if you don't stop I am going to laugh when I see her and I'll be right back in the dog house again

buttons's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:21 AM
laugh laugh laugh :wink:

elsathebloody's photo
Tue 06/24/08 06:21 AM
I always think honesty is best. I can take it, so I wouldn't be pissed if you said it to me.

But I try to lie when I'm stuck in a situation like that.

Lying is wrong, but when it means sparing someone's feelings in that simple way, it's fine.


Though I'm sure if you lied and said you liked it, and she found out afterwards that you lied, then she would be pissed anyway.

Sometimes theres no winning with people like that.