must be scammer night I got one also

hell no, i don't want his email. be his queen? lololol. ok lille angel, i apologise if i am wrong then. sorry. have to look out for those free-loaders huh...


No problemo

Thank, God! I thought this only happened to us old, fat women! You made my day!
But, seriously, I haven't had an adoring scammer on this site. I sure hope they're not letting them in on this new site!

Mirror hadn't hit you wiff one yet! HA!

No...and I'm crushed!
But, as a consolation, I get the "you have beautiful eyes, I want to give you a back rub" emails! Geez!

The possibility that it is a scam letter is very good but so is the possibility that you have attracted someone who is from a radically different culture who has a huge crush on you.

In our arrogance as American's we often forget that the internet does not recognize borders and frequently what we post goes to a world wide audience that has vastly different customs. Considering that in my humble opinion we should think before we slur other cultures who already have frequently seen us as rude, spoiled, hateful, and selfish elitests that can't accept a profuse compliment graciously and resort to making religious insults and publicly disgraceing men. Hardly flattering to people who are our peers but worse in a world that already has more than enough reason to hate us.

Wheather you wish to acknowledge, accept, or even consider his "proposal" is absolutely your choice. (Personally I don't recommend it but that has more to do with never accepting any relationship that is based on blind infatuation rather than long distance love or cross cultural love because they can be wonderful even if they are difficult.) As is your right to discuss it in this forum but what you and other's have said doesn't show a lot of grace or tolerance for for a man who may have given you the compliment of your life, and his, by professing his adoration for you in a situation where he well could have been expected to marry within his own circles or to please family or mentors that would have most likely NOT picked you; a stranger on a web site, but someone he knew almost as remotely.

Since I really think the majority of this post is "hypothetical" what if is the case? What if you also offended who ever was involved in him chooseing you. Maybe you have insulted a highly educated successful worldly bussinessman you may need later in life or his family? Maybe he is the highly skilled heart surgeon, or banking executive that owns the shopping mall in your community, or any of his multitude of possible friends or family members who could hate you for humilateing him into suicide to save face. In some cultures to be rejected publicly is huge. Something to think of.

Probably what is more important to consider is the legions of guys who have walked the long walk back across the dance floor after a rejection and while might think his approach as pathetic or whatever they will remember the betrayal of the kiss and tell and probably read your profile to see who to avoid.

Or what if you are just being used as and example proving that Americans are



Is the text of the letter perfectly written? Nope but then considering it is in a second language and I don't know that many American's who have mastered English maybe I would cut him the slack of not publicly dogging his effort. It is not like he said anything vulgar or disrespecting.

Oh he's a keeper!

How can you lead someone on when you have never had any contact with him before?

All the scammer letters look like this.

Well as you can see some people fall for it. They think they guy is real.

I'm crushed too, Mirror hasn't sent me anything either... and I'm also jealous, I don't receive those emails!!

Not quite. I got two in the same day on another site. Both women were in Lago, Nigeria to open an art exhibition. Should have had them look each other up. But one was from Sweden because her mother was Swedish. The other was Finnish because her mother was from Finland.

Even if this was a "true profession of love" someone needs to let that culture know to tone it down a couple of notches. But face it, it's a scammer. And I for one would rather take the chance of assuming that he is a scammer then to assume he is not. We've all seen these letters. They are all exactly the same. A couple of words changed here and there, a different country, but it's all the same. And personally, I think anyone that falls for a letter like this, is just plain foolish.

Thanks, what was I thinking?

But they always fall in love with you from afar without every having corresponded with you..and I have gotten some with the subject line "nice meeting you"...implying that we had already met...

my memory isn't that short, is it? Angel, are you SURE you didn't know this guy?

Wish I had kept some of the "letters" from scammers. They often give way more "information" then is needed. My favorite scammer line, "distance has no bounds when true is found."

Unless they are writing from West Africa or Russia.

Maybe I should email him and give him my addy and phone number and bank account number so I can have his virginity

Maybe I should email him and give him my addy and phone number and bank account number so I can have his virginity


He ain't no virgin. They work as a well crafted machine.

Could send them my bank account at First National Rip Off.