And if I had emailed him why would he be giving me his email addys 2 of them! in the FORM letter!!!! sHEEEEEEEEESH

Thank, God! I thought this only happened to us old, fat women! You made my day!
But, seriously, I haven't had an adoring scammer on this site. I sure hope they're not letting them in on this new site!

Mirror hadn't hit you wiff one yet! HA!

from his response, you are obviously leading him on, only to make fun of him in jsh. i do not find this funny at all

The possibility that it is a scam letter is very good but so is the possibility that you have attracted someone who is from a radically different culture who has a huge crush on you.

In our arrogance as American's we often forget that the internet does not recognize borders and frequently what we post goes to a world wide audience that has vastly different customs. Considering that in my humble opinion we should think before we slur other cultures who already have frequently seen us as rude, spoiled, hateful, and selfish elitests that can't accept a profuse compliment graciously and resort to making religious insults and publicly disgraceing men. Hardly flattering to people who are our peers but worse in a world that already has more than enough reason to hate us.

Wheather you wish to acknowledge, accept, or even consider his "proposal" is absolutely your choice. (Personally I don't recommend it but that has more to do with never accepting any relationship that is based on blind infatuation rather than long distance love or cross cultural love because they can be wonderful even if they are difficult.) As is your right to discuss it in this forum but what you and other's have said doesn't show a lot of grace or tolerance for for a man who may have given you the compliment of your life, and his, by professing his adoration for you in a situation where he well could have been expected to marry within his own circles or to please family or mentors that would have most likely NOT picked you; a stranger on a web site, but someone he knew almost as remotely.

Since I really think the majority of this post is "hypothetical" what if is the case? What if you also offended who ever was involved in him chooseing you. Maybe you have insulted a highly educated successful worldly bussinessman you may need later in life or his family? Maybe he is the highly skilled heart surgeon, or banking executive that owns the shopping mall in your community, or any of his multitude of possible friends or family members who could hate you for humilateing him into suicide to save face. In some cultures to be rejected publicly is huge. Something to think of.

Probably what is more important to consider is the legions of guys who have walked the long walk back across the dance floor after a rejection and while might think his approach as pathetic or whatever they will remember the betrayal of the kiss and tell and probably read your profile to see who to avoid.

Or what if you are just being used as and example proving that Americans are



Is the text of the letter perfectly written? Nope but then considering it is in a second language and I don't know that many American's who have mastered English maybe I would cut him the slack of not publicly dogging his effort. It is not like he said anything vulgar or disrespecting.

Anyway, I guess now we see why they continue to do this...it actually WORKS! I'm speechless

No...and I'm crushed!
But, as a consolation, I get the "you have beautiful eyes, I want to give you a back rub" emails! Geez!

All the scammer letters look like this.

The possibility that it is a scam letter is very good but so is the possibility that you have attracted someone who is from a radically different culture who has a huge crush on you.

In our arrogance as American's we often forget that the internet does not recognize borders and frequently what we post goes to a world wide audience that has vastly different customs. Considering that in my humble opinion we should think before we slur other cultures who already have frequently seen us as rude, spoiled, hateful, and selfish elitests that can't accept a profuse compliment graciously and resort to making religious insults and publicly disgraceing men. Hardly flattering to people who are our peers but worse in a world that already has more than enough reason to hate us.

Wheather you wish to acknowledge, accept, or even consider his "proposal" is absolutely your choice. (Personally I don't recommend it but that has more to do with never accepting any relationship that is based on blind infatuation rather than long distance love or cross cultural love because they can be wonderful even if they are difficult.) As is your right to discuss it in this forum but what you and other's have said doesn't show a lot of grace or tolerance for for a man who may have given you the compliment of your life, and his, by professing his adoration for you in a situation where he well could have been expected to marry within his own circles or to please family or mentors that would have most likely NOT picked you; a stranger on a web site, but someone he knew almost as remotely.

Since I really think the majority of this post is "hypothetical" what if is the case? What if you also offended who ever was involved in him chooseing you. Maybe you have insulted a highly educated successful worldly bussinessman you may need later in life or his family? Maybe he is the highly skilled heart surgeon, or banking executive that owns the shopping mall in your community, or any of his multitude of possible friends or family members who could hate you for humilateing him into suicide to save face. In some cultures to be rejected publicly is huge. Something to think of.

Probably what is more important to consider is the legions of guys who have walked the long walk back across the dance floor after a rejection and while might think his approach as pathetic or whatever they will remember the betrayal of the kiss and tell and probably read your profile to see who to avoid.

Or what if you are just being used as and example proving that Americans are



Is the text of the letter perfectly written? Nope but then considering it is in a second language and I don't know that many American's who have mastered English maybe I would cut him the slack of not publicly dogging his effort. It is not like he said anything vulgar or disrespecting.

Not quite. I got two in the same day on another site. Both women were in Lago, Nigeria to open an art exhibition. Should have had them look each other up. But one was from Sweden because her mother was Swedish. The other was Finnish because her mother was from Finland.

The possibility that it is a scam letter is very good but so is the possibility that you have attracted someone who is from a radically different culture who has a huge crush on you.

In our arrogance as American's we often forget that the internet does not recognize borders and frequently what we post goes to a world wide audience that has vastly different customs. Considering that in my humble opinion we should think before we slur other cultures who already have frequently seen us as rude, spoiled, hateful, and selfish elitests that can't accept a profuse compliment graciously and resort to making religious insults and publicly disgraceing men. Hardly flattering to people who are our peers but worse in a world that already has more than enough reason to hate us.

Wheather you wish to acknowledge, accept, or even consider his "proposal" is absolutely your choice. (Personally I don't recommend it but that has more to do with never accepting any relationship that is based on blind infatuation rather than long distance love or cross cultural love because they can be wonderful even if they are difficult.) As is your right to discuss it in this forum but what you and other's have said doesn't show a lot of grace or tolerance for for a man who may have given you the compliment of your life, and his, by professing his adoration for you in a situation where he well could have been expected to marry within his own circles or to please family or mentors that would have most likely NOT picked you; a stranger on a web site, but someone he knew almost as remotely.

Since I really think the majority of this post is "hypothetical" what if is the case? What if you also offended who ever was involved in him chooseing you. Maybe you have insulted a highly educated successful worldly bussinessman you may need later in life or his family? Maybe he is the highly skilled heart surgeon, or banking executive that owns the shopping mall in your community, or any of his multitude of possible friends or family members who could hate you for humilateing him into suicide to save face. In some cultures to be rejected publicly is huge. Something to think of.

Probably what is more important to consider is the legions of guys who have walked the long walk back across the dance floor after a rejection and while might think his approach as pathetic or whatever they will remember the betrayal of the kiss and tell and probably read your profile to see who to avoid.

Or what if you are just being used as and example proving that Americans are



Is the text of the letter perfectly written? Nope but then considering it is in a second language and I don't know that many American's who have mastered English maybe I would cut him the slack of not publicly dogging his effort. It is not like he said anything vulgar or disrespecting.