I'm having some serious issues myself, but this place makes for a good diversion....it also helps that I'm with the best gf I ever had....

sometimes silently, sometimes not so silent

hello mr dreamz VOONGA VOONGA BABY!!

You've gotta remember to count your blessings.
I'm dealing with some srious issues myself, but I cope with it all.
Coming here and reading the forums is a good distraction. There are a lot of fun and funny people on here.

I too like alot of ppl in here have had better days.. I pray things get better.. for me personally, Im not sure they can get a whole lot worse..
Lets keep our chins up and get through this together..

I am in between right now. So I don't know what to think. I've got some great friends tho.

i lurk alot but...i always feel like that at night time..i hate when i have time to think about everything that is going on

The dreaded "mind chatter"....

Congrats Lex ... !!!!

I've always known that Life was a ***** - but the last ten years has only proved to me that she HATES me!!

You can either deal - One Day At A Time also works for me - or let it crush you.
Every day that I am able to lie (alone *sigh*) in my own bed, in my own house, without having to molly coddle someone else's bad temper or wipe their insecure a$$ for them and without any new bruises (barring those of the ego or heart), I call a Good Day.

Smile!!

It does wonders for your outlook. Invariably, someone will return it to you ... most often, LOTS of someones.

Just in the last couple of weeks, dont really know what any of us are going to do.

I usually suffer in silence. I have found that I am judged or told what to do when all I want is someone to hear what I say and understand the feelings behind it


I hope for you a better time of it

Sometimes all the platitudes in the world really don't help. Sometimes you just hold your breath and hope it all goes away. To bad life didn't come with a manual. ..or maybe even friends. Wouldn't it be great if everybody got friends issued to them that they could count on? That way you wouldn't every feel completely alone.

Although I will say chocolate does help a little

ruff times here too,, hope things get better for you all

Everyday is different I just try to keep my head up you must of missed all my sad stuff.....

Divorce isn't really a bad thing, if you know the rules. All toilet seats are to remain in the upright and back position, and no food or drinks on the pool table. When I gave up on the marriage, I was determined to live and live I shall. As for pickings out here, it's at least a 45 minute drive to meet anyone worth dating, so I'll be damned if I have to suffer during the wait.

yes and i feel like ****in screaming, i cant cry anymore, no tears left. just saw my doctor.

Debbie, not much I can do from here, but if you ever need an ear..drop me an email.

thankyou.