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Topic: What do you think?
redhead44613's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:22 PM
Edited by redhead44613 on Mon 06/23/08 04:22 PM
Are the stages to getting over someone?? huh

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:22 PM

Are the steps to getting over someone?? huh



Look; a door, walk through it.

"A door closes, but many others open."flowerforyou

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Mon 06/23/08 04:24 PM
Well there is a gun, a line with attached rock, a line with the loop, briges, towers, etc. Many ways :smile:

Kleisto's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:24 PM
I'd say shock, denial, realization, heartbreak and acceptance.

kristone's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:24 PM
friends

redhead44613's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:26 PM

Well there is a gun, a line with attached rock, a line with the loop, briges, towers, etc. Many ways :smile:
noway not even funny dude!!!!!!!!:angry:

bastet126's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:26 PM


Are the steps to getting over someone?? huh



Look; a door, walk through it.

"A door closes, but many others open."flowerforyou


magnificent! flowerforyou

chickayoshi's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:26 PM
Have some friends and get out and flirt with some guys...flirt like crazy. It's a breath of fresh air. It's hard to stop thinking about an ex but you have to learn to put your thoughts towards something else. It's a slow process but you can do it.

redhead44613's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:28 PM

Have some friends and get out and flirt with some guys...flirt like crazy. It's a breath of fresh air. It's hard to stop thinking about an ex but you have to learn to put your thoughts towards something else. It's a slow process but you can do it.
oo I have been fliting alot.... I know its gonna take time but I wanna know what stage Im at

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Mon 06/23/08 04:28 PM



Are the steps to getting over someone?? huh



Look; a door, walk through it.

"A door closes, but many others open."flowerforyou


magnificent! flowerforyou


I also agree :smile: drinker

ledi180's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:30 PM
I'm inclined to agree with this, but pure anger has to fit somewhere in there - maybe after denial or before heartbreak?


I'd say shock, denial, realization, heartbreak and acceptance.

Pete026's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:31 PM

I'd say shock, denial, realization, heartbreak and acceptance.


That's psychologically sound drinker

I'd guess you're in stage four, but only you can know for sure.

ElaineSeekingJerry's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:31 PM
When you think you're done with one stage ... well, it sneaks up on you ... kinda like grief; but I'm a firm believer in not trying to rush the process too much (obviously the length/depth of the relationship plays a HUGE role in the recovery) or you'll take a little bit of the negative residue into the next relationship.


chickayoshi's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:31 PM
First stage. As long as you don't wake up thinking about him, comparing him to someone else, or whatever that makes you think of him. First stage. Second would be when you are not thinking about him as much. He wouldn't be a thought in your mind and you can be able to really enjoy single life. But, this is my opinion. I'm sure there are many great advices out there.

Pete026's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:32 PM

I'm inclined to agree with this, but pure anger has to fit somewhere in there - maybe after denial or before heartbreak?


I'd say shock, denial, realization, heartbreak and acceptance.



VERY good point, anger should definitely be in there

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Mon 06/23/08 04:32 PM
Look this lady up on her website or in book stores. Lots of info on loss and the processes.

Elisabeth Kubler Ross

Although she has a lot on dealing with death, a relationship break up has very similar symptoms.

LouLou2's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:41 PM
Yep, gotta agree with SKPCG! It's grief, redhead, the same as any other grief - like a little death...anger, denial, bargaining, depression, acceptance.

redhead44613's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:45 PM
Im angry and depressed brokenheart :cry:

Pete026's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:47 PM

Im angry and depressed brokenheart :cry:


A terrible combination. I've been there, I know how horrible that is flowerforyou

redhead44613's photo
Mon 06/23/08 04:49 PM
I just dont understand why I am even feeling like this... it was only 3months.... I just wanna move on an get over this..

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