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Topic: Please help
ozzy_lover's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:16 PM
my cousin is engaged to this guy that really loves her and gave her his dead mothers ring. But she in still not over this guy that she met a while back. The guy that shes not over called and asked her out on a date and she said yes. i personally think she is stupid for saying that and now she is regreting it. somethimes she doesn't make good decisions with guys. This is an emergency.... please help

Killer666's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:18 PM
she ****ed up ohwell

robert1652's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:18 PM
Edited by robert1652 on Mon 06/23/08 12:19 PM
how to help we don't have a rentadate servicelaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

ledi180's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:20 PM
What's to help? IMO, if she's engaged, she doesn't have any business dating anyone other than her fiance. Tell her that.huh

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Mon 06/23/08 12:21 PM
If she wasn't over the previous guy why did she say yes to marry the new one? She can't have her cake and eat it to. She needs to make a decision and by the sounds of it she needs to tell the fiance that she is not ready yet because if she was she would have NEVER agreed to a date with the ex.

robert1652's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:21 PM
I suppose she can have the cake and eat itlaugh laugh

DestinysDream's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:23 PM
What do you think we can tell you that you don't know?

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Mon 06/23/08 12:25 PM

I suppose she can have the cake and eat itlaugh laugh


I guess so but it will get her in the end and break some guys heart. Pathetic that some of us out there just want someone to really love us and here is someone that has it and it isn't enoughexplode

missy51970's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:25 PM
I agree wth Jeff..^^^

What is it you need us to tell you? I think you already know what to do,whats up and what to say to her...good luck

Redsoxfan1's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:25 PM
If she accepted the proposal, she already made the decision!!:heart:

robert1652's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:26 PM
nobody yet mentioned she can go as well to make a foursomelaugh laugh laugh

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Mon 06/23/08 12:26 PM
Edited by ddn122 on Mon 06/23/08 12:27 PM
say goodbye to the ring...

Davew42503's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:27 PM
ok,ok, This is what she needs to do.... First take off the Fiance's ring... place it on the kitchen counter...go to the bedroom pack all of her clothes and any other personal stuff... place this into a car or have afriend come over and pick it up.... when he comes home take him to the kitchen and tell him its over...then leave... Cause she is most definately not in love with him...and if she doesnt want to do this ...too bad she needs to go...

ozzy_lover's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:28 PM
i don't know what the hell to do with her. when we made the trip up to tennessee, she knew this guy and kissed him. then felt bad about it later, told the guy she is engaged to and he forgave her. I guess she still thinks that he is going to keep forgiving her. she has good intentions, just not in the boy area. so i just don't know. me personally woul stay with one guy and think about one guy. I just don't see where it is that hard to love some one so much to stick with him

Davew42503's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:29 PM
I have one rule in life...DONT under any circumstance say you love someone and not mean it !!!!!!!!!!!!

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:32 PM
Yeah what do you want us to do? She's a selfish, ignorant, dishonest, deceitful, immature person whose priorities, morals, and dedications are in a garbage can. I hate c*nts like her. They are called cheaters. Have her watch the tv show cheaters. Put her on the tv show cheaters. Maybe karma will be where someone cheats on her someday. Its an awful feeling to have total trust destroyed. Good luck!

Winx's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:32 PM

i don't know what the hell to do with her. when we made the trip up to tennessee, she knew this guy and kissed him. then felt bad about it later, told the guy she is engaged to and he forgave her. I guess she still thinks that he is going to keep forgiving her. she has good intentions, just not in the boy area. so i just don't know. me personally woul stay with one guy and think about one guy. I just don't see where it is that hard to love some one so much to stick with him


There is nothing you can do with her.

We can't control other people.flowerforyou

Davew42503's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:33 PM

Yeah what do you want us to do? She's a selfish, ignorant, dishonest, deceitful, immature person whose priorities, morals, and dedications are in a garbage can. I hate c*nts like her. They are called cheaters. Have her watch the tv show cheaters. Put her on the tv show cheaters. Maybe karma will be where someone cheats on her someday. Its an awful feeling to have total trust destroyed. Good luck!


drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker I could not have put it better...

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:36 PM
Ohhhhhhhh!!!! Tennessee!!! Scratch my last advice. Put her on the springer show!!! I'm hearing banjo music and smelling pabst blue ribbon and marlboro lights in the air already!

Davew42503's photo
Mon 06/23/08 12:38 PM

Ohhhhhhhh!!!! Tennessee!!! Scratch my last advice. Put her on the springer show!!! I'm hearing banjo music and smelling pabst blue ribbon and marlboro lights in the air already!



at least it will be a free trip to Chicago!!!!...
there you go she could tell him in front of the world...
grumble noway brokenheart

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