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Topic: What's wrong with me?
Damselfly125 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 25	Mon 06/23/08 09:54 AM
Dear Abby, How come I can't seem to find anyone good men on these sites? Am I ugly? What else does a man want? I have a job, my own place to live, my own car and my kids are grown. WTH! If I do get some sort of hit on here, then the men are really older then me, not very good looking or they just want to have cybersex. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME????????????????????????????

MYheartACHES4u Joined Tue 05/27/08 Posts: 3076	Mon 06/23/08 09:56 AM
sorry to old for me...................but good luck anyways

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 06/23/08 09:56 AM
oh good grief

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 06/23/08 09:56 AM
The world is loaded with idiot's.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Mon 06/23/08 09:57 AM
You are SO NOT ALONE in your strife.

Davew42503 Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 274	Mon 06/23/08 09:58 AM
Jerks are jerks and losers are losers!!! it aint you!!! Its just the majority of the world...and by the way that works both ways...and how old is too old?... hang in there Poppy Dave says life will get better for you...Mr Right is close by...and Idont mean the mailman...lol just be you and let it happen... Dave

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 06/23/08 09:58 AM
ummmmmm whats the date today?

Nursienurse Joined Sun 05/18/08 Posts: 224	Mon 06/23/08 09:59 AM
Dear Abby, How come I can't seem to find anyone good men on these sites? Am I ugly? What else does a man want? I have a job, my own place to live, my own car and my kids are grown. WTH! If I do get some sort of hit on here, then the men are really older then me, not very good looking or they just want to have cybersex. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME???????????????????????????? How about what is wrong with them?? They dont want us women who are extablished and good!

soffit Joined Thu 02/15/07 Posts: 1165	Mon 06/23/08 10:00 AM
nothing

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Mon 06/23/08 10:00 AM
When will people realize that it does take longer then 4 days to find someone on a dating site?

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Mon 06/23/08 10:01 AM


Damselfly125 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 25	Mon 06/23/08 10:01 AM
Why should age have a factor in this? I understand you you are younger then I am, but come on do I look my age? And be nice, I am just asking a question. I have been told on serval occations that I look much younger then I am.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 06/23/08 10:01 AM
I see you have been here 4 days......did you expect to be engaged by now???

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 06/23/08 10:02 AM
ummmmmm whats the date today?

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Mon 06/23/08 10:02 AM
When will people realize that it does take longer then 4 days to find someone on a dating site?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 06/23/08 10:02 AM
Well..... not to come off the wrong way but here are my thoughts: As said before: You are not alone, this happens to all of us. Dating is hard. Patience is a virtue. Whining is not an attractive trait. You are not helping your situation. Self pity is frowned upon in the forums. If you don't like your situation, try a new approach. If you go apple picking in an apple tree orchard, expect to get apples every time. If you want peaches, you need to make sure they are peach trees. If you just want good apples, stop picking them up off the ground. You are in control of your life, your actions and behaviors. Go DO something about it. Good luck to you.

Damselfly125 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 25	Mon 06/23/08 10:03 AM
^5 GIRLFRIEND! Is it that they are intemidated by us?

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 06/23/08 10:03 AM
Why should age have a factor in this? I understand you you are younger then I am, but come on do I look my age? And be nice, I am just asking a question. I have been told on serval occations that I look much younger then I am. you said age was a factor..you said then men that contact you are old and not very good looking...

MYheartACHES4u Joined Tue 05/27/08 Posts: 3076	Mon 06/23/08 10:04 AM
Why should age have a factor in this? I understand you you are younger then I am, but come on do I look my age? And be nice, I am just asking a question. I have been told on serval occations that I look much younger then I am. i said that i hope you find someone...........i was not trying to be mean you are just not what i am looking for in my life right now.............if you stick around long enough you may find someone who holds your interest

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Mon 06/23/08 10:04 AM
Dear Abby, How come I can't seem to find anyone good men on these sites? Am I ugly? What else does a man want? I have a job, my own place to live, my own car and my kids are grown. WTH! If I do get some sort of hit on here, then the men are really older then me, not very good looking or they just want to have cybersex. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME???????????????????????????? you mean whats wrong with them.