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Topic: What do you do...
Sexysari004's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:15 PM
When the guy you are seeing talks about his ex and how hes not over her and how much he still cares for her... ALL THE TIME.... and even after youve spent a great weekend together, he seems more worried about what shes doing than how you are at all... i need some advice.... im sad.

rush2001's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:16 PM
Edited by rush2001 on Sun 06/22/08 10:17 PM

When the guy you are seeing talks about his ex and how hes not over her and how much he still cares for her... ALL THE TIME.... and even after youve spent a great weekend together, he seems more worried about what shes doing than how you are at all... i need some advice.... im sad.


I dump him like last weeks garbage.

Etrain's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:16 PM
dump him...hes not readydrinker

CleanBathroom's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:17 PM
Run like the wind sweetie. It hurts, but now is a better time to get lost than later when it'll be waaaaay more difficult.

Don't you deserve to be the priority? flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:17 PM

dump him...hes not readydrinker
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Sun 06/22/08 10:18 PM
Seems you already know the answer if you're asking the question...


When the guy you are seeing talks about his ex and how hes not over her and how much he still cares for her... ALL THE TIME.... and even after youve spent a great weekend together, he seems more worried about what shes doing than how you are at all... i need some advice.... im sad.

Sexysari004's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:18 PM

Run like the wind sweetie. It hurts, but now is a better time to get lost than later when it'll be waaaaay more difficult.

Don't you deserve to be the priority? flowerforyou


i thought i was.. im really disappointed right now i really liked him. alot... :'(

nvrsaynvr's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:19 PM
Kick him to the curb!grumble

You deserve more!!drinker flowerforyou

iRon's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:20 PM
In new relationships there are red flags to watch out for and that is one.......

the decision at hand is based on what you believe you deserve. So the question is, do you deserve his full attention or do you want to share him...

and the decision you make will determain how you feel about your self....

Sexysari004's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:24 PM

In new relationships there are red flags to watch out for and that is one.......

the decision at hand is based on what you believe you deserve. So the question is, do you deserve his full attention or do you want to share him...

and the decision you make will determain how you feel about your self....

i know i deserve more.. but what do you do if you honestly cant find more... i usually only meet the guys who want a "friend"

hikerchick's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:25 PM


In new relationships there are red flags to watch out for and that is one.......

the decision at hand is based on what you believe you deserve. So the question is, do you deserve his full attention or do you want to share him...

and the decision you make will determain how you feel about your self....

i know i deserve more.. but what do you do if you honestly cant find more... i usually only meet the guys who want a "friend"
Then you wait. You don't settle.

s1owhand's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:32 PM
wait. you never know who you may meet tomorrow.
if he's not ready now, he may be ready in time.
but if you push then you are fighting windmills
and how can you prevail in battles where your
opponent is fictional?

there is only one way to conquer the imaginary.
be real.

there are many many more people out there. so many.
fascinating and stimulating and attractive people.
meet them, shock them and brighten their lives
just as you would right here...

flowerforyou

iRon's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:32 PM


In new relationships there are red flags to watch out for and that is one.......

the decision at hand is based on what you believe you deserve. So the question is, do you deserve his full attention or do you want to share him...

and the decision you make will determain how you feel about your self....

i know i deserve more.. but what do you do if you honestly cant find more... i usually only meet the guys who want a "friend"


Never settle, being alone is better than NOT been being treated with absolute, respect, kindness and unconditional love....make your life great and all things will fall into place, I promise ....


PS, you are young and cute with lots of time and you have no worries....

maraskia74's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:33 PM
umm hes with you not her if he cant forget you cant competeflowerforyou move on fast

iRon's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:51 PM
Here is another point of view.....I am over my ex-wife but I am not over what happened, her betrayal, the loose of my family or they pain I went through.....


They are deferent but it would still be wrong of be to dwell on it with a new love interest...

LIJOMA's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:31 PM

dump him...hes not readydrinker




What he said!!!

brooke007's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:34 PM
tell him.....that u really just want to be friends and leave it at that..

No1sLove's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:36 PM



In new relationships there are red flags to watch out for and that is one.......

the decision at hand is based on what you believe you deserve. So the question is, do you deserve his full attention or do you want to share him...

and the decision you make will determain how you feel about your self....

i know i deserve more.. but what do you do if you honestly cant find more... i usually only meet the guys who want a "friend"


Never settle, being alone is better than NOT been being treated with absolute, respect, kindness and unconditional love....make your life great and all things will fall into place, I promise ....


PS, you are young and cute with lots of time and you have no worries....
I absolutely second this! You are a sweetheart and an adorable gal. Please don't believe you can't have everything you desire from a relationship. You most certainly can. You are soooo young still, what is the rush? Being alone is not as bad as being with someone who treats you second rate...you might start to believe that's all you deserve...run hon! flowerforyou

Babygirl's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:39 PM
use him for sex happy Maybe he will forget about her once u put the smack down on him

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:59 PM
say bye bye

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