What is cheating? Is it cheating when you sign up for a dating site when
if fact that person is not singel?Him or her is only looking for a
little fun off the net?whats wrong with just play acting?whats the harm
in it?its not like Im ever going to meet her? what the wife and my
online girlfriends dont know wont hurt them besides you should be more
carefull who you write to

It s wrong because your going to play with emotions, and emotions are
not something to be played with.

Right or wrong, It reminds you that you DON'T rerally know who you're
talking to sometimes. Be careful out there guys and girls.

IF YOU WANT TO PLAY GAMES WITH PEOPLE......PLAY MONOPOLY

It's still cheating....I don't understand what the zeal is that people
get out of pulling one over on somebody. The hype of someone new that
has an interst in you "online" no less. How much do you really know
about this person you've chatted with, sent emails back and forth, etc.
But then again how much do you know about a person when you first meet
them in person?

I agree Tigerman, if you want to play games with ppl, play an actual
game. I'm so sick of the games ppl play with others heads and emotions.
I've had it done to me so many times, I've lost count. Could be why I am
so skeptical of most...but I'm slowly regaining trust again in human
kind.

These forums are a good way to kind of sort out the good from the bad,
the players from the non-players.

If you are LIEING, DECIEVING or DOING SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO ASK, IS THIS
OK. You are LACKING in integrity. Integrity means you don't do those
things, you don't have to ask that question. You either HAVE integrity
or you DON'T.
Lost mine for awhile, now it is my most valued possession.
Hope you have yours.

If you had ever been deceived or hurt, you would know the answer to that
question. There are real people behind pictures and post.

There are sites that claim to be specifically intended for these kinds
of "discrete encounters" -- I see ads for them on other sites all the
time. "Meet horny, bored housewives," that sort of thing. Is it
cheating? Sure, because there's an intent, even if (for whatever
reason) there's no follow-through. But at least on those sites, you
have an idea of what's going on before you sign up.

On a more "traditional" site, there's an even greater risk of someone
being deceived and hurt. Ask yourself how you would like it if you were
the one on the short end of that stick.