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Topic: What Is It With Men?
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Sun 06/22/08 02:31 PM

I don't care to prove I don't like sex, because I damn sure do... it's one of the best parts of life to me and a wonderful way to share intimacy and love with a partner... and when I don't have a partner, I'm still very sexual and take care of it my self... lol

I understand there are many who can take or leave it and don't enjoy it like me... but I honestly think they are missing out my self!


Few not many.

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Sun 06/22/08 02:46 PM
Edited by DestinysDream on Sun 06/22/08 02:48 PM


To the OP, why are you kissing the cam? Do you think that may have anything to do with your experiences?


Based on my personal experience, the suggestiveness (or lack of it) in one's profile pic doesn't necessarily determine the type of 'innocent' or 'overt' responses that you will receive. I don't think my current 'photo' leaves me open to such questions as 'are you a sexual lady?' and 'where do you like to be touched?' within the first 4 minutes of IMing -- as I was subjected to yesterday, by someone who claimed he hadn't been with a woman in 3 yrs b/c he was so selective and respectful of women ... um, yeah.


This is the first line of what she said:
"I have met several men from these sites and it ultimately comes down to one thing...S-E-X!"

That is what I am talking about with the photograph. She is also holding up a peace sign which is cool. Except what is she appealing to? A younger, more liberal, horny guy. Now maybe she doesn't realize this and my post will help her change the pic so she appeals to a more conservative man.

Frankly I wouldn't dismiss off-hand the guy who messaged you. He said he is selective and has not been with someone in three years. He is here looking for someone because he could not find someone in real life. Are his words that hard to believe?

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