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Jules0565's photo
Fri 06/20/08 11:28 AM


Don't get me wrong or take this the wrong way, because I am very happy you two found each other, I think that's great... BUT, my question is this... (not only to you but other's as well)

How can two people say that they are truly in love with one another, when they have never met in person? Or even discuss marriage options?
Ok, we were never serious about the marriage options, because neither one of us is marriage minded. That was merely a joke.

How can we love each other? Even though we haven't met face to face yet, we just know. And until you've truly opened up your heart and bared your soul to a person like this, I doubt you will ever know! So of course it seems strange. But so did the idea of flying, cars, even barcode readers at the supermarket before they were there and proven.


Ok..didn't know the marriage options were a joke, I apologize for that.. Like I said, don't take me the wrong way.. I am VERY HAPPY that you two found each other... and I guess I could understand you falling in love if in fact you've been talking/opening up, baring your ALL.. for quite sometime. I personally don't know how long you've known each other.. was just a question I had ..and it wasn't just directed towards you two.. I've heard of others in the past that were sooooo in love and had only chatted online for only a few weeks. happy

Jules0565's photo
Fri 06/20/08 11:28 AM


I had met my last bf online and knew I liked him very much, we talked for a few months, phone/online.. we met in person and decided to date.. it was at least a few more months before the words "I Love You" came into play.. and many years before we discussed the marriage option.. We dated for 6yrs..been single now for a little over a year.. it didn't work out.. so I was just curious?
I met my ex wife of 9 years together (married 7) on the net, so it does work!



I whole heartedly agree it can work.. no doubt about that! drinker

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Fri 06/20/08 11:32 AM

I had met my last bf online and knew I liked him very much, we talked for a few months, phone/online.. we met in person and decided to date.. it was at least a few more months before the words "I Love You" came into play.. and many years before we discussed the marriage option.. We dated for 6yrs..been single now for a little over a year.. it didn't work out.. so I was just curious?


Really, I don't know how it happened. It just did. As far as meeting...I feel we already have...on here...over the phone...via web cam. Hours upon hours of talking, sharing, bonding without the distraction of the pyhsical. The way Peccy and I are (so full of all sorts of questions), we have talked in depth on most anything and everything imaginable. We probably know more about each other in these 3 months than alot of people know about their spouse.
It is a feeling you get that that person belongs in your life. That you don't want to ever be without them. They are the first person you think of when you wake and the last person you think of before going to bed. No, we havn't met in person. But, we have met. And we do love each other very much. And do we think that when we meet all of a sudden this 3 months will not mean anything? NO. I think the opposite will happen.
I think when I first meet Peccy in person, everything else will fall into place. I have already met his heart and soul...the rest is just icing on the cake.
And marriage is just a formality we don't feel is necessary to prove our love at this time in our life.

Peccy's photo
Fri 06/20/08 11:33 AM
Lilangel and I have been together a little over 3 months, but have talked countless hours on the phone and chatted twice as much. Love didn't come in until very recently.

Jules0565's photo
Fri 06/20/08 11:35 AM


I had met my last bf online and knew I liked him very much, we talked for a few months, phone/online.. we met in person and decided to date.. it was at least a few more months before the words "I Love You" came into play.. and many years before we discussed the marriage option.. We dated for 6yrs..been single now for a little over a year.. it didn't work out.. so I was just curious?


Really, I don't know how it happened. It just did. As far as meeting...I feel we already have...on here...over the phone...via web cam. Hours upon hours of talking, sharing, bonding without the distraction of the pyhsical. The way Peccy and I are (so full of all sorts of questions), we have talked in depth on most anything and everything imaginable. We probably know more about each other in these 3 months than alot of people know about their spouse.
It is a feeling you get that that person belongs in your life. That you don't want to ever be without them. They are the first person you think of when you wake and the last person you think of before going to bed. No, we havn't met in person. But, we have met. And we do love each other very much. And do we think that when we meet all of a sudden this 3 months will not mean anything? NO. I think the opposite will happen.
I think when I first meet Peccy in person, everything else will fall into place. I have already met his heart and soul...the rest is just icing on the cake.
And marriage is just a formality we don't feel is necessary to prove our love at this time in our life.


Makes much more sense to me now, thank you! drinker happy Like I said.. I am truly happy for you two!

Peccy's photo
Fri 06/20/08 11:37 AM
Good luck to you Jules!!!!!

Jules0565's photo
Fri 06/20/08 12:01 PM

Good luck to you Jules!!!!!


Thank you Peccy happy

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