Topic: AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
Alterego1961's photo
Thu 06/19/08 08:49 PM
My ex just told me she is thinking about giving full custody of my stepdaughters to her sister because she can't fight her and fight her cancer at the same time! This is the same sister who has convinced my girls that their mother has lied about having cancer in the first place, lied about having a hysterectomy (I was there for the surgery), lied about needing chemotherapy... The same sister who convinced my girls to lie about things to their counselors and CPS... The same sister who in the past has stayed in a motel for 4 days simply to keer her estranged husband from seeing his children for Father's Day... The same sister who thinks because she works for a lawyer she can get away with violating federal privacy laws concerning medical records... My girls are living a life I wouldn't wish on anyone, yet they don't know it because they have been conditioned (I hesitate to call it brainwashing) to think it is not just normal, but it is good to be that way. My girls are going to live a life of ugliness and I am powerless to do anything about it because I have been forbidden to do anything by my ex, and her sister would sick all the lawyers on me pro bono. You can't fight that. I'll never see my girls again, and if I do they will be mere shadows of the beautiful little girls I remember..... sad sad sad explode explode explode

BatCountry's photo
Thu 06/19/08 08:52 PM
:cry: noway

Queene123's photo
Thu 06/19/08 08:54 PM
that sucksnoway

Spaceman2008's photo
Thu 06/19/08 08:55 PM

My ex just told me she is thinking about giving full custody of my stepdaughters to her sister because she can't fight her and fight her cancer at the same time! This is the same sister who has convinced my girls that their mother has lied about having cancer in the first place, lied about having a hysterectomy (I was there for the surgery), lied about needing chemotherapy... The same sister who convinced my girls to lie about things to their counselors and CPS... The same sister who in the past has stayed in a motel for 4 days simply to keer her estranged husband from seeing his children for Father's Day... The same sister who thinks because she works for a lawyer she can get away with violating federal privacy laws concerning medical records... My girls are living a life I wouldn't wish on anyone, yet they don't know it because they have been conditioned (I hesitate to call it brainwashing) to think it is not just normal, but it is good to be that way. My girls are going to live a life of ugliness and I am powerless to do anything about it because I have been forbidden to do anything by my ex, and her sister would sick all the lawyers on me pro bono. You can't fight that. I'll never see my girls again, and if I do they will be mere shadows of the beautiful little girls I remember..... sad sad sad explode explode explode


Dude, that's messed up...is there another attorney you can get a free consultation from to see if there is any way to get around this?

no photo
Thu 06/19/08 08:55 PM
Wow, she sounds like someone my ex husband knows!! Wicked witch with all the latest gadgets at her command. I am so sorry. You must feel really powerless on top of feeling all that grief! You have my sympathies brokenheart ...... God Bless!!

guyguy1225's photo
Thu 06/19/08 08:56 PM
you should not give up on them....if it were my kids I would fight with everything in me...goodluck!! bud and don't give up!!noway

boneyjoe's photo
Thu 06/19/08 08:57 PM
you may be surprized,,,,if they had a good life with you then they probley rember it,,,,th snow balling only last till they grow up an start thinking on there on,,,,but good luck with it an ventuer out an find company,,,it's not ood for you to set around an be lonely

no photo
Thu 06/19/08 08:58 PM

you should not give up on them....if it were my kids I would fight with everything in me...goodluck!! bud and don't give up!!noway

I think since they are step children, he won't have a choice unless there were adoption papers involved! This is what makes this so sad. :cry:

Alterego1961's photo
Thu 06/19/08 09:00 PM
Thanks all. I have only been able to help by helping my ex get her life back in order... The best lawyer in town is the one she works for, and the "good 'ol boys club" in this town is nearly impossible to break... I want to fight, but am powerless... I feel so frustrated!

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Thu 06/19/08 09:02 PM
Did you adopt by any chance? I hope so...

A great resource for all guys is the National Fathers Rights site at http://www.dadsamerica.org/resource.htm Hope that helps! flowerforyou

Alterego1961's photo
Thu 06/19/08 09:02 PM


you should not give up on them....if it were my kids I would fight with everything in me...goodluck!! bud and don't give up!!noway

I think since they are step children, he won't have a choice unless there were adoption papers involved! This is what makes this so sad. :cry:


You got it. I have loved them as my own since they were very small (3,2,1), but I have no legal claim, so no basis to file anything!brokenheart

Spaceman2008's photo
Thu 06/19/08 09:05 PM

Did you adopt by any chance? I hope so...

A great resource for all guys is the National Fathers Rights site at http://www.dadsamerica.org/resource.htm Hope that helps! flowerforyou


I have been looking ALL OVER for that! THANKS!!!

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Thu 06/19/08 09:14 PM


Did you adopt by any chance? I hope so...

A great resource for all guys is the National Fathers Rights site at http://www.dadsamerica.org/resource.htm Hope that helps! flowerforyou


I have been looking ALL OVER for that! THANKS!!!


Glad it helped someone, Spaceman. flowerforyou Hang in there Alterego ~ our thoughts are with you & the girls!

Alterego1961's photo
Thu 06/19/08 09:18 PM



Did you adopt by any chance? I hope so...

A great resource for all guys is the National Fathers Rights site at http://www.dadsamerica.org/resource.htm Hope that helps! flowerforyou


I have been looking ALL OVER for that! THANKS!!!


Glad it helped someone, Spaceman. flowerforyou Hang in there Alterego ~ our thoughts are with you & the girls!


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