but what are the right questions?

Morning my suzyQ

Morning Tanya, how's it going?

good, I have to go to work in about an hour, but still good!

I talked to my lovie first thing this morning That always puts me in a good mood for the day!

that depends on the situation and dynamics in part, but I suppose what I meant is when she begins being sincerely concerned with getting to know the real me and what makes me tick.
I believe that it's so often that people project their own paridigms and thought processes on others, sometimes totally missing the obvious. For example, I've dated people (ladies) who really expected me to respond to their whims (both phisical & emotional)without really listening to my needs, desires and hopes. They seem to think "well, he's a man, men think this way so what's wrong with this dude?"

In other words, what I mean is that if she really loves me, she'll begin to explore communicating with me in ways that show that she has a real sense of who I am and that she's willing to trust me because she's taken the time and trouble to see the real me,not just see me as a fixer upper or compare me to anyone else.

if that makes sense.

makes complete sense to me!

I wish you success in your search!

thanks sweetie. , same to you

oh I have already found my one! excellent communication