Ive been looking at alot of profiles the past week alot of woman are tired of the games men play care to share, might give us some insight

lol good luck with that one man. them saying that is more of a game then the "game" we actually "play" but if you do find out the answer to the games "all" men play let me know so i can stop playing them.

men ant th only game players,,,,,women are getting pretty good them self

we are just trying to stay in the "game" to keep up with the men.

Im sick of all the games men play with my heart

thats right

Im not trying to start an argument. Knew it might get one going just looking for specifics. just looking for some insight might help men all around

ok you want a straight answer and not a joke? What do I consider to be games guys play? Not calling when you say you will. One day you are all about me then I never hear from you again. One day you are making plans to meet me in e-mail the next day in the forums I see you telling someone else how crazy you are about them. Not answering your mail when you are the one that wrote me first. Flat out LIES. Playing the numbers game. Playing friends against each other, yes women do talk to each other. This give you a good general idea?

I treat strangers with more care and respect than I have been treated with by people who call me friend....

I think women and men are all tired of people who are not really who they say they are; who have an agenda other than what they are stating; people who aren't really looking for a genuine relationship. Both sexes have game players and genuine people. I think saying you don't want a game player in your profile is a waste of time; no player is going to look at that and say, "OH, she doesn't want games. Move on." Liars never admit to being liars.

Might as well say "no axe murderers"

I ways was told if you do what you say ,and do what needs to be done and not wait for someone else to do it There shouldnt be a problem but alot of people dont feel that way .I guess some times its easier to just not call would it be easier on your heart if they told you they didnt want to talk to you anymore

yes..honesty is better that sitting around waiting for someone to call and wondering what the heck is going on. Common courtesy is to tell them you are moving on.

I agree. It gets old reading profiles that say, and I quote:

"No game players. No liars. No haters. No cheaters."

WTH....what fun is that? I mean who DOESN'T want all those wonderful attributes in a person?


Seriously though do people (female AND male) think someone who is any of the above is going to say .. "oh, they don't want me .. I guess I'll move to the next profile" ...



brother ........

Thanks for the insight hikerchick im new here but im sure there will be lots of lessons learned today

not by me darlin (( Destiny ))

Maybe you shouldn't listen to me..I don't get any dates!

thats ok any advice right now is good advice

ya but you have lots of friends (( Hiker ))

That's always been my argument -- people who say "no game players" are probably going to attract them, because they've already hinted at a bad past experience, a susceptibility to falling for that sort of thing. The "easy mark," so to speak.

On the other hand, most profiles are either empty or so cliche-infested that it's hard to know whether any of it actually came from the profilee or if the whole thing came from a cut-and-paste out of one of the other ten billion identical profiles.



Or "No arsonists, phony bank tellers, or pretend kidnap victims." Live and learn, I suppose....

Im pretty sure most people arent real sure what to say or what there looking for just thier tired of being alone hoping not to get burned twice or more

Ok I have a new one to add to my list having my comments totally ignored after asking for the opinion